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[nzlife]

with crummy weather comes a bit of a crummy mood change.  yes, i'm using the word "crummy" because i can't think of anything better at the moment.  i'm having one of my usual "blah, the dating world sucks" moments

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[ms_firecracker]

Oh Andrea, I totally understand. I did the math remember, and out of 15 guys that I've met, 2 were decent. Out of the 20 guys or so I've messaged, 3 have responded.

I checked out your profile, and it's lovely and I don't think there's anything you need to change. And I know this doesn't help in the lonely moments (oh I really, really know), but there are guys out there who think you are amazing, like Romil and Josh, and guys who like you on POF, like Ice Cream and Wednesday night guy.

I have no answer for why guys don't message girls like us back, are we not pretty enough, not their type, they have too many people on the go. Honestly, I bet the fact that we're looking for relationships throws a lot of guys off. It seems silly to us, but I'm sure it keeps a lot of good guys at bay. Maybe try switching your "looking for" to dating but nothing serious and see if that makes a difference.

[nzlife]

i actually just recently changed my "looking for" from dating to relationship thinking maybe it would change things and attract a different type of guy. dating got me nowhere. when i had dating on there i met icecream...who is clearly looking for nothing serious