You are NOT an annoyance hun, but I know the feeling. Life gets in the way sometimes and we don't realize we haven't seen our friends in ages often when it's been months or even years. We definitely need to hang out more often than just on New Years! I miss your friendship too, even though I'm just as guilty about not making contact with you and everyone else. For some reason I have it in my head that if people want to hang out, they'll call me. Otherwise I'm just not important enough for them to bother making a phone call or text. So consider this my attempt at reconnection, dammit! :D
I feel the exact same way about people calling me if they want to hang out, and figuring that I'm just not important if they don't.
And I know it's hard because I'm stuck in SF without a car, so getting out of the city is an ordeal. And I completely understand that it's generally a huge pain trying to drive/park/navigate SF.
So, thank you. I'll start bugging you more on facebook and so forth, if you're not opposed. I want to organize another get together once I have a bit more free time...
I'm not going to let myself not reply to this entry. I miss your friendship, and I still want to be your friend. I had feelings just like these only a few months ago, so I absolutely understand. I have not been able to reconnect with everyone that I want to yet. Dont think that you are an annoyance though. I am trying to convince myself that everyone feels just as shy as I do, and so I shouldnt worry myself with contacting people because everyone wants to be contacted. But I cant convince myself of the not worrying part all the time :P
So I am reconnecting also :) It would be great to find a way to be able to hang out.
You know me, I can be very shy when it comes to actually making contact with people. I unfortunately leave that up to others, thinking that I'm assuming too much by contacting people out of the blue.
Thank you for responding. I would like to have a get-together or something soon when I have a bit more free time from school. :)
I feel like such a doofus because I've been telling myself for the past two months that I should call a bunch of people and organize a night out, yet I somehow never manage to get it done. And here I've been sitting, moping about not seeing my friends. Why do we all do this
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I think that monthly movie nights sounds like an awesome idea. And girls' nights out to spice it up. :)
Yay Great America - I haven't been there in a few years. I kinda sorta bought a season pass to the Santa Cruz Beach Boardwalk (I know I don't live there anymore :P) - so I would be up for organizing a Santa Cruz trip if people are up for that.
I've never really gotten into Sex in the City, but I may be up for seeing the movie if some girly drinks are involved beforehand. :P
I am guilty of being a lurker as well - it seems like I only have two settings lately: content wallflower or emo drama queen.
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We definitely need to hang out more often than just on New Years! I miss your friendship too, even though I'm just as guilty about not making contact with you and everyone else. For some reason I have it in my head that if people want to hang out, they'll call me. Otherwise I'm just not important enough for them to bother making a phone call or text.
So consider this my attempt at reconnection, dammit! :D
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And I know it's hard because I'm stuck in SF without a car, so getting out of the city is an ordeal. And I completely understand that it's generally a huge pain trying to drive/park/navigate SF.
So, thank you. I'll start bugging you more on facebook and so forth, if you're not opposed. I want to organize another get together once I have a bit more free time...
Also - what's new in your life?
:)
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So I am reconnecting also :) It would be great to find a way to be able to hang out.
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Thank you for responding. I would like to have a get-together or something soon when I have a bit more free time from school.
:)
What's new in your life?
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Maybe we can find excuses to hang out when school dies down?
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:)
Yay Great America - I haven't been there in a few years.
I kinda sorta bought a season pass to the Santa Cruz Beach Boardwalk (I know I don't live there anymore :P) - so I would be up for organizing a Santa Cruz trip if people are up for that.
I've never really gotten into Sex in the City, but I may be up for seeing the movie if some girly drinks are involved beforehand.
:P
I am guilty of being a lurker as well - it seems like I only have two settings lately: content wallflower or emo drama queen.
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Love,
Rico and Alternate Universe Rico
P.S. We'll try to see you soon
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