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Jul 29, 2004 11:11

well, i don't know how many of you remember me if you do at all. i haven't posted in here for a while. recently things with my boyfriend have been crazy and it's been tough. we've bee together for almost a year and a half (will be offically on aug. 7th), and up until now everything has been perfect. he is my best friend in the entire world and we ( Read more... )

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brokenrecord66 July 29 2004, 20:50:39 UTC

definately sounds familiar to me. my boyfriend and i had been going out maybe a year and three months when we got into our first real fight. we had never gotten in a fight before and we were both really stressed and seemed to take that out on our relationship. one night he mentioned that maybe we should take a break and i didnt want to because i was scared. he was also my best friend. and i didnt see how space would help the problem. the terms of the break were to not even talk on the phone. not even online. the break was going to be for one week. but i cracked withing three days and i called him. he told me that he wanted to call me too, but he didnt want to give in. to be honest, i think the space, even for so little time, really revived our relationship. it made me realize how much he means to me and how much i mattered to him also.
take this time to spend time on urself and get back in touch with your friends.
if its love, and its meant to be, then everything will be better.
good luck
<3

champagne__ July 29 2004, 23:13:09 UTC

I would be extremely surprised if we all hadn't been in a situation like this before ( ... )

xindierawkchick July 30 2004, 05:35:45 UTC

what you and josh are going through right now is something normal and it is something important to go through. it's obviously important to josh that you respect his decision to want some extra space. and it's important to you that you not lose his friendship and love during this time. but love and friendship will transcend time, and like you said, things like this take time. i think it's good for both of you to use this break as a learning experience to find out some more about yourselves, and what you each want ( ... )