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odette_michaud

Ambien Diatribes, ep19

Dec 10, 2009 04:45

So, this is my first attempt to reinvigorate the community that I came alive on LJ with, and maybe to bring new friends in as well. Because I DO love you all, I care about you all, and would fight for each of you ( Read more... )

nonsense ambien questions

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anonymous December 10 2009, 09:48:22 UTC

How long did it take for you to realize you were... gender fluid?

odette_michaud December 12 2009, 10:35:16 UTC

It's kind of hard to say... looking back there are a lot of things that seem clear in retrospect and those sorts of thing have been going on since somewhere between 10 and 12. But as for a specific realization that I was gender-fluid was one night of reading and then writing, here. Everything became very clear.

anonymous December 10 2009, 10:30:14 UTC

If it comes down to your gender expression or your marriage, what will you give up?

odette_michaud December 12 2009, 10:36:19 UTC

I don't accept the premise of the absolutist question. I would do my best to keep both. That would be my only goal.

anonymous December 10 2009, 12:33:32 UTC

Is there anyone on your f'list you'd want to sleep with if you got the chance?

odette_michaud December 12 2009, 10:37:58 UTC

Yes, without a doubt. Three leap to mind right off the bat, but there could easily be more.

anonymous December 12 2009, 13:32:13 UTC

Which three?

odette_michaud December 12 2009, 17:46:00 UTC

hmm... no, I don't think I'll answer that here. :)

If any of them were to do some sort of 'say anything to me and it'll be screened so only I can see it' kind of thing on their journals, I'd tell them. :)

anonymous December 10 2009, 13:51:40 UTC

how would you label your sexuality?

odette_michaud December 12 2009, 10:39:29 UTC

I think I'm come down to genderfluid. I don't feel any need to choose one or the other as my final answer. I like both sides of me, they make me who I am. And they both have different tastes and desires that I want to explore.

anonymous December 10 2009, 13:53:24 UTC

how do you picture having sex with another person as yourself?

odette_michaud December 12 2009, 10:41:58 UTC

I picture it like having sex. There will be a liot of kissing and caresses and tongues swirling and kisses planted and whispered moans, arched backs, legs widening to accept the other one inside in the truest act of trust and submission and pure love. I mean, it's like that for you, right?

anonymous December 12 2009, 14:10:29 UTC

yeah, but you know i was thinking mechanically. :)

odette_michaud December 12 2009, 17:43:27 UTC

Mechanically? What exactly do you think I do in bed? :)

Look, I know, sort of what you mean, I guess, but I don't understand why it would be a mystery. The 'mechanics' are kind of irrelevant, it's the act itself that matters to me, the expression of it. If I fell in love with someone with a total lack of sexual organs we'd still have sex.

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