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megaroni_ in offrealthin

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May 27, 2009 22:24

I feel terrible for being so neglectful to this community. It was such a great idea, and I really want it to remain active! I really want to try and be more involved in this for benefit of all of you. So I figure why not kick it off with another anonymous post? It seemed so successful last time. I'm thinking this may turn into a monthly thing ( Read more... )

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anonymous May 28 2009, 05:45:51 UTC

i need to tell this guy i don't like him anymore but i don't want to hurt him, but by not telling him i'm just leading him on even more.
i already told him i don't want to date him because hes going away to college, but the guy i really like is already away at college...
i don't know what to do.

anonymous May 28 2009, 18:24:50 UTC

be honest with him. the longer you wait the worse it will get. bad news is always bad news, but prolonging it only makes it worse

and take it from a girl who has been dumped A LOT

anonymous May 28 2009, 07:46:07 UTC

I am so fucking sick of talking about my eating disorder, and hearing contradicting things from everyone on my team. I DON'T WANT TO BE SICK ANYMORE.

anyway, I'm irritated right now, and I don't feel like posting to my own journal because everyone thinks I'm relapsing and I'm not. and I'm just bitter and annoyed. whine much? sorry. meh.

anonymous May 28 2009, 10:20:43 UTC

i wish i was dead. i dont want to fight anymore. and i'm tired of the sound of my own tears.

anonymous May 28 2009, 20:14:42 UTC

lol

anonymous May 28 2009, 20:36:11 UTC

this

anonymous May 28 2009, 20:15:02 UTC

how the fuck do you hear your tears?

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anonymous May 28 2009, 10:52:33 UTC

So I had just started seeing this guy, who I really, really like, because he's actually fucking NICE and courteous and wonderful, blah blah blah, unlike anyone else. I guess I drunkenly told him one night that I wanted to wait to have sex, which I kind of don't remember saying but I can believe it just based on my past of having sex with people and then getting screwed over. He agreed with me so we decided to wait ( ... )

anonymous May 28 2009, 19:19:01 UTC

TALK TO HIM. i swear to god. it works wonders. and if it doesnt, then you shouldnt be with him. you have to be able to talk to people who are close to you in your life.
i drunkenly had sex with the guy im going with right now the first night we REALLY talked. (we knew each other prior, but not well.) i felt like things were weird the next few days, so i told him i wanted to talk, and i told him everything i was feeling. and it turns out he was feeling the same way. neither of us wanted to rush into anything but being together like that felt so right. so we kept doing it. and now were away from each other for the summer (college) btu im going to see him next month (:
seriously just talk to him!

anonymous May 28 2009, 20:13:59 UTC

anonymous May 28 2009, 11:17:14 UTC

i love my boyfriend and our relationship is so lovely, but he can't last more than 5 minutes in bed, and never does anything for ME. i've only orgasmed twice in the year we've been together. it's so frustrating but i know he tries and is just self conscious he's doing it wrong. at the same time i just feel neglected and unwanted.

anonymous May 28 2009, 18:23:26 UTC

my boyfriend has never made me orgasm

anonymous May 29 2009, 19:12:11 UTC

THIS ^^

anonymous May 28 2009, 19:17:08 UTC

You should TELL HIM. PLEASE. Unless you want to eventually break things off, then yes, continue on this path of non-communication.