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[ohfiveseventeen]

i love how my friends couldn't give a shit about me.
i go out of my way for everyone, and i get nothing in return, i'm fucking done.

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[getback_loretta]

i'm sure they do.. just don't show it in the ways you'd like
i go through this all the time, but then i have to remind myself
i shouldn't do things for my friends just to see what i get back from it

but i understand the frustration.. cause i go through it a lot

[ohfiveseventeen]

no its not that i do things so see what i will get back, i just do things in general...like help people out all the time, or like include people in my plans if they have nothing to do, and no one ever does that for me.

[getback_loretta]

i totally know what you mean
my thing was always more with money
i would get upset because i was always paying for people, getting them things, being the "oh, don't worry i got you" person

but never felt like anybody did or would do that for me, but then i had to tell myself [i actually made a post about it on my other journal] that i should give everything & expect nothing

i'm not saying that you are expecting things & want people to give you everything back.. but sometimes telling yourself little things like that help

hopefully i didn't upset you, just trying to share what helped me :]

[ohfiveseventeen]

no i appreciate thank you, yeah i used to be that person too hah lending people money and shit, but then you never get paid back and never get the same done for you so i was like fuck it from now on im done with that.

[_bright_side]

i feel the same way....it sucks.