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I don't wanna get in trouble or start a fight or raise anybody's hackles, so I will be brief. ♥ I was a bit of a tactless ruffian a few days ago and do not wish to repeat that behavior
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Is that the conclusion that you came from from reading this or is that something you already believed? Since thats completely different from the point I was trying to convey. My point wasn't that Gackt wanted to control his girlfriends but rather that he brags about having dominance in a relation ship while completely failing at that in real life
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It's an opinion I've had that I feel like the evidence in your post reinforces.
But you know, like you said, he contradicts himself so much and so often that it's entirely possible he's confused the fuck out of me and I've lost whatever message he ever meant to convey.
Hmm... this is a very interesting topic and has been on my mind since I saw that recent interview segment on youtube. I think it's important to remember that people behave differently in relationships at different points in their lives... maybe it's age, life experience, stress, or a zillion other factors coming into play. And we also don't know much about these relationships he speaks of. Relationships involve two parties and we are only privy to the opinion and viewpoint of one here
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This is exactly what I think when I read something GACKT says about women or relationships. I think he creates very solid walls around himself, especially when it comes to relationships. I honestly think that he's had very few, if any, healthy relationships and as such, it's become easier for him to just hold everyone at a distance by creating ridiculous standards. That way, if things don't work out, he can just say "I told you..." and he doesn't have to risk the heartbreak.
Interestingly enough, for the people that believe in astrology, this is a very common trait for Cancers (GACKT's sun sign.) They are very loving and tender individuals, but they build a hard outer shell (like the crab) so that they can protect themselves from hurt.
if you click the "astrology" tag, I did a work up on the chart, but it's as yet unfinished. I found my notes again, though, so hopefully I can finish it before the end of the year.
I just want to point out that despite him using concrete examples, he may only mean it the figurative way.
He says he wants the girl to want him to open the car door, but he might just simply mean that he wants to be a gentleman/prince and the girl must let him be one. Personally, I'm amazed if nowadays someone would open and hold a door for me.
And with fighting, I would do the same. I hate fighting with anyone when they're not open to reasonable and rational discussion, but are simply mad and want to lash their anger out.
All in all, I doubt he even wants a girlfriend who's too tame/boring/weak/whatever, but I think this summarises it well: I think the act of "believing in someone and giving them all of yourself" is something that takes more ability than deciding something and doing it for yourself.Again, he doesn't want the girl to be too independent or try to do things herself when he could be there do to it for her or with her
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But you know, like you said, he contradicts himself so much and so often that it's entirely possible he's confused the fuck out of me and I've lost whatever message he ever meant to convey.
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This is exactly what I think when I read something GACKT says about women or relationships. I think he creates very solid walls around himself, especially when it comes to relationships. I honestly think that he's had very few, if any, healthy relationships and as such, it's become easier for him to just hold everyone at a distance by creating ridiculous standards. That way, if things don't work out, he can just say "I told you..." and he doesn't have to risk the heartbreak.
Interestingly enough, for the people that believe in astrology, this is a very common trait for Cancers (GACKT's sun sign.) They are very loving and tender individuals, but they build a hard outer shell (like the crab) so that they can protect themselves from hurt.
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http://spaceprincess18.livejournal.com/34241.html
if you click the "astrology" tag, I did a work up on the chart, but it's as yet unfinished. I found my notes again, though, so hopefully I can finish it before the end of the year.
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There's been an astrology post in the comm earlier -
If you want to have a look, it's here ^_^
http://community.livejournal.com/ohgacktyoudidnt/51965.html
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He says he wants the girl to want him to open the car door, but he might just simply mean that he wants to be a gentleman/prince and the girl must let him be one. Personally, I'm amazed if nowadays someone would open and hold a door for me.
And with fighting, I would do the same. I hate fighting with anyone when they're not open to reasonable and rational discussion, but are simply mad and want to lash their anger out.
All in all, I doubt he even wants a girlfriend who's too tame/boring/weak/whatever, but I think this summarises it well:
I think the act of "believing in someone and giving them all of yourself" is something that takes more ability than deciding something and doing it for yourself.Again, he doesn't want the girl to be too independent or try to do things herself when he could be there do to it for her or with her ( ... )
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