Now I know it's pathetic.

[ohsolovelyy]

I have come to the realization that I have not yet found a single boy that has fit my expectations. It seems to me that I have very few expectations, but when I really think about it, maybe I have more then I think? I can't help to be picky, it's just who I am. I don't just date because it's the cool thing to do. "Oh look at me, I have a boyfriend

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[farms_]

Okay, first of all..
"Whenever I end up liking a boy, I always find out he is a slut, playa, etc"
STORY OF MY LIFE

Second of all...
The whole virginity thing is so played out. You may think you want to lose it to a guy you love, care for, blahbalh, but how are you going to feel when he leaves? Guys these days make you feel so wanted, that you probably won't know for real or not. When he leaves, you are going to probably feel so used, so empty, that it's not worth it. My experience is that it's probably better to do it with a good friend you wouldn't feel bad about. Neither using eachother but then again..what do I know? Just one persons opinion and advice. I totally feel ya on this post though, but i've learned to just be patient. Losing your virginity doesn't mean you're a slut. You could have had sex and it doesn't mean you are automatically going to do it with every HaWtIe ever.

[ohsolovelyy]

Oh I definately see your point. You are extremely right. And I'm not waiting for that perfect time, I just have to be comfortable enough with the guy first ya know? If he uses me for sex, I guess I have found out. But if he can be in a relationship and not expect it, and then all of a sudden one day, I'm ready, let's go, that's kindv'e how I want it.. But I don't know. Maybe I'm just not comfortable with the whole idea in the first place.

[laceladylindsay]

Forget about the cute guys and go with the average looking guys. They're usually much nicer.

[dezidizzle]

i agree with lyndzie. Be patient, im almost eighteen and i havent found anybody, your not even sixteen. Im sure you will strike luck.

[oh_ihateyou]

Having high expectations can be a good thing. When it comes to personality, it's a good thing. Good looking assholes are everywhere. Just be patient and eventually something will show up.