I'm sorry, darling. I have the same problem. I've been struggling with this forever and it makes me sick.
But please don't let it get you down. Do something about it. I know how hard it is. That's my problem. I can't actually do something about because I'm so sick that it makes me think I can't. Bleh. it's horrible.
A size 16 in little girls or in juniors/womens? If it's little girls that's way too small! Never,ever think like that. I used to be that size when I was 8! But if it's juniours/womens, that's understandable to me. :)
The thing is, I have a friend who'd promise to work out with me every day and she could give a flying rat's ass about me. All she cares about is her boyfriends and looking good for them, instead of helping me, when I've alwys been there for he. Always.
Haha, sorry. You can tell that I have alot to back all this shit up. I'm sorry.
If there is anything I can do, let me know, cupcake. <3
hey, hey, hey. *big hug* calm down sweetie. look, i have no idea what you look like now; if you think you need to lose weight, i'm sure you're going to go about it healthily and responsibly, because i have faith in you. all i can say is that the last pictures i saw of you, you were still beautiful and you ARE beautiful, i can tell you that without having ever seen you, because you have a beautiful heart and a beautiful soul. so if you want to do this for you, you have my complete support, but i am never going to think that you aren't gorgeous, because maybe i don't know the nicole on the outside, but i DO know the nixy on the inside, and she's one of the most beautiful people existing in this world. i love you.
*super big hug* don't put yourself down so much dear, you are a sweet, and gorgeous girl nicole. if you're concerned about your weight and plan on losing some ( which you have my support), do it the healthy way.. i don't want such a wonderful girl to get herself into a scary eating disorder. i'm still recovering from mine, it's not very fun. if you ever need to talk, i'll be here for you. i love you <333
*big hugs* I know EXACTLY how you feel. Last year when I got my holiday photos back I was disgusted. I was nearly 4 stone over weight, which is about 56 pounds. But still I did nothing about it. I had come out of a really painful break up and wanted to do as I please. Then I wanted to lose some before my birthday but I just couldn't be bothered. Then I said I'd do it after xmas. Couldn't be bothered. It wasn't until it got until nearly May that I thought 'shit, If i want to look good in june when I go away, then I have to do something NOW'. So I just started eating healthily, and exercising a lot. it was like a trigger so I panicked. I didn't deprive myself of anything nice, it was just more eating on a regular and sensible basis. But to be honest, once you change your eating habits (and that all it is, it's not a 'diet') and start to feel the benefits you don't really want to put shit into your body anymore. More fruit and veg really makes you feel good
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But please don't let it get you down. Do something about it. I know how hard it is. That's my problem. I can't actually do something about because I'm so sick that it makes me think I can't. Bleh. it's horrible.
A size 16 in little girls or in juniors/womens? If it's little girls that's way too small! Never,ever think like that. I used to be that size when I was 8! But if it's juniours/womens, that's understandable to me. :)
The thing is, I have a friend who'd promise to work out with me every day and she could give a flying rat's ass about me. All she cares about is her boyfriends and looking good for them, instead of helping me, when I've alwys been there for he. Always.
Haha, sorry. You can tell that I have alot to back all this shit up. I'm sorry.
If there is anything I can do, let me know, cupcake. <3
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And as Ally said, remember that you are still beautiful where it counts, so don't put yourself down!
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