okay, i'm in kara's position in way. so i guess, i'll try to be helpful, as much as i can at least. first of all, you always will love sam. there is nothing that you will ever be able to do to change that. love doesn't go away, it just transforms itself. the question is, are you still in love with her? or has that loved transformed into a friendly love? i still love my ex dan, however, i'm no longer in love with him. he's told me that if he wasn't with his girl, he would be trying to get me back. i wouldn't take him back though, not because of what he did to me. but, because of the fact that he's not that person i fell in love with anymore. nor am i the girl he fell in love with. i guess where i'm trying to go with this is that weather you want to believe it or not, you and sam have both changed over the past year. i seem to doubt that she is that same girl you once fell in love with. try steping back for a while. just living. taking time for you. i garentee that you'll realize how you have changed. and then you'll start to realize
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I've been trying to help you with this for a loooooooong time now... The primary problem with that is, even with all the advice I've tried to give, I have absolutely no real idea on how you feel. I've never been in anything like this situation, excluding the mental strain i retain from things we don't speak about outside of just us anymore. But as always, I am here and I'll do my best to help. You're my bro, yo, and there's nothing that can change that.
Never thought I'd actually use livejournal for anything... hm..
Let me preface this by saying that although I consider Kara to be my best friend, I want you to know that I am trying to give you the most unbiased advice that I can
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That was quite a well-articulated response. I could perhaps give one just as good, were I not drunk.
Anyway, Zach: Hang in there, man. I know you miss Sam, but eventually you have to shit or get off the pot, in a manner of speaking. You need to figure out what you truly want, and try to make that happen.
Also, congrats on graduating. And we still need to get crunk together sometime.
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Never thought I'd actually use livejournal for anything... hm..
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Anyway, Zach: Hang in there, man. I know you miss Sam, but eventually you have to shit or get off the pot, in a manner of speaking. You need to figure out what you truly want, and try to make that happen.
Also, congrats on graduating. And we still need to get crunk together sometime.
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crunk is good.
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