just 2 much

[oldskoolchick]

well a few days ago me and my group of "friends" were going to seperate cuz of alot of reasons. I have this so called"friend" that just makes this jokes about me that r not even funny. She criticizes others behid their backs and she thinks thats suppose tobe funny or that people should agree with her so i got tired of all that and just ignored her

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[anonymous]

Judging from what I have read this is a sticky situation since the negativity comes from your "friends" and now who are you suppose to rely on for help?? I'm sure that this jokester doesn't mean to hurt you intentionally but she should also keep in consideration your feelings IF she is your friend. Letting people know how you feel is the only way to fix things for not a lot of people are mind readers you know? They could either help you by using your information or hurt you by just flat out ignoring you which couldn't be too good. But it seems that things are somewhat back to normal now. Don't worry too much about the problems that lie within your group and pretty much just enjoy the coolness of hanging around with them. True friends stay together despite the little problems that may arise and hopefully this will be the last time you will write about this subject.

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[oldskoolchick]

well yea thanx fo the advice. Maybe I should get something out of it cuz it really does make sence... well yea with my "friends" problems.. they continue to happen and well we fix them but is it normal that they continue??? Is that even supposed to be called a friendship?? I just want to change my personality and not let others put me down!maybe that will help this dramma in some way.

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[kylejames]

Problems do rise and fall but if they never fall then that wouldn't be right at all. IF things continue this way from now on I really don't think that it would be considered friendship anymore. You should never ever change your personality in anyway!! You are a super nice "chica" and changing your whole personality would only bring you down cause you would be conforming to something you think you "should be" and not what you are already are and aught to be ya know?? I hope I helped a little bit. Enjoy!

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[oldskoolchick]

thanx Kyle for all the advice that u always give me cuz it really does help me think and realize many things. So yea thanx fr everything and u see... it wasnt so bad of an idea for u to get a journal... u already got comments. Well ill talk to u soon!