Comments | ommango: Advice on meeting resistance found in my Inbox

ommango

Advice on meeting resistance found in my Inbox

Sep 20, 2007 18:43

"I could beat the drum of this situation, and make it worse, or I could just stop talking about it and make it better."

Just stop talking about it! WOW!

What if dropping the oars on a lot of subjects could be that simple?

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If you don't meet resistance with resistance, it dissipates dramatically. It just softens. Try it! Next time somebody says to ( Read more... )

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kuruzansuz September 21 2007, 00:19:03 UTC

that was great!

thanks. :)

ommango September 21 2007, 01:06:31 UTC

You are in my thoughts with your blessing way tomorrow. Many good wishes..May it be a very special day in which you feel honored and ready for the next chapter.

compostwormbin September 22 2007, 06:56:28 UTC

I doubt this would work with bullies, particularly if they are demanding specific actions. They would just keep making unreasonable demands until you can no longer function.

ommango September 24 2007, 18:22:07 UTC

Luckily right now I am not attracting bullies into my experience and am very thankful.

Turning my outlook around to see them as a person instead of a bully might be able to change how I respond to them and how they might respond to me. I am not sure. I guess it would depend on how threatened I felt as to whether I could be non-resistant.