Note to inactive friends

Nov 12, 2018 12:55

I'm a purger. It's just who I am. So today, I'm purging friends who haven't posted in three months. I do this every so often. Please don't be offended. I hope you're okay, and if you come back we can always 're-friend ( Read more... )

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one_raido November 12 2018, 19:04:07 UTC
As I just updated, I get it if people don't add comments. I try to comment, but sometimes there just isn't anything I can add. But I want my fl to be active.

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verucas_chaos November 12 2018, 20:49:04 UTC
i have to find a way to remember to post weekly at least. The problem I have is the toggling back and forth to comment. I can comment easily as long as the OP is long. If it is and I have to click "read more" then it goes to the journal and you have to do all that back tracking! Oh well - such is LJ!!!

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one_raido November 12 2018, 21:08:42 UTC
I rarely use lj through my phone for that reason, that it's too much work.

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brainbeast November 12 2018, 21:24:36 UTC

LJ has become a ghost town these days it seems

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spiral_meter November 12 2018, 21:56:07 UTC
every once in a while i cut anyone who hasn't commented in the last eight or so entries.

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one_raido November 13 2018, 00:18:57 UTC
Really? That's quick! :)

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spiral_meter November 13 2018, 01:30:28 UTC
i just find that if people aren't really taking interest in what i have to say, why keep them?

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one_raido November 13 2018, 02:08:27 UTC
True.

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lab_jazz November 12 2018, 23:21:40 UTC
I get your drift. Like you I'm on LJ for the interaction.

There are a couple of people on my flist who never comment on my posts but I'm OK with that because I find their posts interesting.
But I tend to weed out the others who don't comment to my posts. If people aren't going to interact with me there is no point in having them.

The same goes for the people who never respond to comments I and others make on their posts, or even worse cherry pick what comments they are going to respond to.

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one_raido November 13 2018, 00:20:17 UTC
I have always felt that lj was a deeper connection venue.

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dimity_blue November 16 2018, 18:43:18 UTC
"The same goes for the people who never respond to comments I and others make on their posts, or even worse cherry pick what comments they are going to respond to."

That infuriates me. It feels so snobby.

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