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one_undone

Unfriending

Feb 29, 2008 22:33

This is a rare open post to say that things have gotten really difficult for me lately, and I've removed some friends and comms from my flist. I also quit karate, gave away a bunch of stuff, and am reshuffling virtually every area of my life. I haven't decided whether I'm deleting my journal or not, but I am giving strong consideration to ( Read more... )

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lrdfaelan March 1 2008, 05:54:03 UTC

If you Do delete.... I'll miss you but its up to you. I'll be here with my Jesus on a Pogo Stick for you!

one_undone March 2 2008, 22:16:03 UTC

Deletions are all made already. If you weren't cut by now, you probably won't be, and I know you weren't cut, so don't worry, hon. :) Thanks for the jumpin' Jesus on a Pogo Stick, though. ;)

jrittenhouse March 1 2008, 06:26:39 UTC

Understood. My lack of posting and commenting these days has been more a part of the demands of dealing with all of the medical crap recently - not enough hours in the day and not enough energy to do stuff.

one_undone March 2 2008, 22:34:42 UTC

No worries, Jim. I'm totally aware of what's going on with you. You have bigger fish to fry at the moment. Don't stress ( ... )

mistressmedusa March 1 2008, 08:01:36 UTC

I'm trying to simplify a lot of things in my life right now.
I completely understand. Completely. *hugs*

maida_mac March 1 2008, 23:21:03 UTC

Hey, Angel, it's still locked.

Also, I'm also glad that I made the cut. I saw this post and suddenly got paranoid, since I haven't been commenting much lately.

one_undone March 2 2008, 22:43:20 UTC

Thanks for letting me know, Liss. I have my default set to "all locked," and even though I made it in unlocked in Semagic, when I hit post, it went to locked again. I've fixed it now.

I know people get a lot on their plate from time to time. That's not what it's about. I had a lot of folks on my flist who never commented AT ALL, or never responded when I commented to them, and frankly I felt like there was just no damn point, even if I liked them, of feeling like a remora clinging to someone who rarely or never acknowledged me. Just one or two comments in the three years I've had my journal? Sorry. If they haven't had more to say to me in all that time, it's a sign in MY eyes that we're not meant to be. Know what I mean?

maida_mac March 2 2008, 22:59:08 UTC

Oh, I know exactly what you mean. ^_^

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one_undone March 2 2008, 22:43:44 UTC

Okay. I'll give it a shot.