Unfriending - please read even if you don't usually read me

Nov 11, 2009 02:11

There are significantly more people on my friends list than ever comment here. Some folks have NEVER commented, in 4-5 years ( Read more... )

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maida_mac November 11 2009, 08:54:57 UTC
Not going anywhere, sorry. :p

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one_undone November 12 2009, 03:54:14 UTC
That's fine. I'm not sorry to hear you're staying, either. :)

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fiddle_dragon November 11 2009, 15:32:48 UTC
I still read you :)

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one_undone November 12 2009, 03:55:53 UTC
Okay, good to know. :)

Like I said, I know some people do read or skim but don't have time to comment. I just don't want to be hanging around as extra baggage for anyone who only keeps me friended out of a sense of obligation.

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fiddle_dragon November 12 2009, 03:59:37 UTC
It's definitely not a case of friending out of a sense of obligation :) I'm not good at commenting lately, and there are posts by people that I do skim. I probably should set up lists of those that I read, and those that I skim, so I can go back and read those that I skim like on the weekends or something so that I can be more efficient with those that I actually *do* read (yours being one of those that I actually do read)...but...I never get around to it. There's all sorts of cleanup that I could be doing, one of these days....

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one_undone November 12 2009, 05:18:22 UTC
Oh, don't worry about the commenting. It's to be expected right now, considering the circumstances. Any time we're trying to make big transitions, there are so many little details that we don't need to be worrying about, and this qualifies. When things settle - and they will - you'll have more time and energy for it. No worries. :)

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