I think there might not be any coming back this time. I explained the situation. Told him everybody thought he was a dick. Even told him you were more pissed then I was hoping it would make him understand that he really was in the wrong. He stayed silent and walked out after the movie. Typical....still just doesn't get it. Doesn't think he did anything wrong at all. And now I'm sure he's pissed at me...cuz he knows I'm pissed at him. Not even a fucking apology. Done........and done.
i am hoping so. atleast for a LONG ass time until he realizes you can't go around hurting people. especially someone as beautiful and caring and respectful and wasn't asking him of TOO much as you. be strong lady. he's gonna have alot of time on his hands, maybe he'll figure it out.
Oh I'm doing just fine. Just trying to define the line of how many times a person can hurt you and still be considered a friend. It's pretty sad when you actually have to sit down and weigh out the pro's and con's of keeping someone as a part of your life. I'm sure you can relate. But hey, I've only been putting up with it for 12 years or so...
i never, ever wanted to say "done" to anybody, knowing how much it hurts to have it said to me. unfortunately, i have a new line in the sand wrt lying. i would rather have teh shit kicked out of me than be lied to, at this point.
and my ex apparently has a Gold Medal in Olympic Lying. it was my first (and hopefully my last) "Get the hell out of my life and don't contact me again until you grow the fuck up."
and i think it was fair. that i was fair in handing out that sentence, given everything i went through with him. you mentioned a dozen years - that's just about what it was.
YMMV, and only you will know when you hit that wall.
i hug you!
come to Woodstock so i can finally do it in person, and intrduce you to a TON of insane people. cute, German-speaking people. Rogues. Wenches. Knights. people who beat on other people with swords for a living. :)
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still not allowed in the house >:/
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I think there might not be any coming back this time. I explained the situation. Told him everybody thought he was a dick. Even told him you were more pissed then I was hoping it would make him understand that he really was in the wrong. He stayed silent and walked out after the movie. Typical....still just doesn't get it. Doesn't think he did anything wrong at all. And now I'm sure he's pissed at me...cuz he knows I'm pissed at him. Not even a fucking apology. Done........and done.
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i am hoping so. atleast for a LONG ass time until he realizes you can't go around hurting people. especially someone as beautiful and caring and respectful and wasn't asking him of TOO much as you. be strong lady. he's gonna have alot of time on his hands, maybe he'll figure it out.
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it's apparently where i keep all my man-induced stress. :/
hope you're doing better now. :) *hug*
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Just trying to define the line of how many times a person can hurt you and still be considered a friend. It's pretty sad when you actually have to sit down and weigh out the pro's and con's of keeping someone as a part of your life. I'm sure you can relate.
But hey, I've only been putting up with it for 12 years or so...
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i never, ever wanted to say "done" to anybody, knowing how much it hurts to have it said to me. unfortunately, i have a new line in the sand wrt lying. i would rather have teh shit kicked out of me than be lied to, at this point.
and my ex apparently has a Gold Medal in Olympic Lying. it was my first (and hopefully my last) "Get the hell out of my life and don't contact me again until you grow the fuck up."
and i think it was fair. that i was fair in handing out that sentence, given everything i went through with him. you mentioned a dozen years - that's just about what it was.
YMMV, and only you will know when you hit that wall.
i hug you!
come to Woodstock so i can finally do it in person, and intrduce you to a TON of insane people. cute, German-speaking people. Rogues. Wenches. Knights. people who beat on other people with swords for a living. :)
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And I may actually try to get out to the Faire this coming weekend. I'll let you know.
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