i dont think he felt pressured by me to be in a relationship.. we were just "hanging out" and getting to know each other. but the dynamics of the relationship are already changing. i can feel it. maybe i'm not aggressive enough. i just hate uncomfortable situations and until i know exactly how the other person feels, i dont act. maybe i should. who knows. but you are right, i cant compromise who i am. i wont do that. so ill just wait til i find someone who appreciates it.
you going to start charging me for your wisdom???
and i dont delete entries (except in the occasional situation where i upset someone else for speaking of them). i figure if you feel compelled to respond.. then i should take to heart what you said. so thanks for the response :)
i've worn your boots before.....i think THAT is the worst part about dating. not the initial rejection from asking someone out, but hanging out for a while and talking and getting to know each other more and more....hell, maybe even some body rocking knocking tha boots....only to have them *poof* and vanish or just start backing away or just stop calling. i can't count the times that i've been upset by this and thrown in the towel and said "fuck it, i'm through dating....i can't stand meeting someone new to have 'em walk out of my life." i'm much like you in that i'd like to know what the other person is feelingly, but unfortunatly, emotional honesty is not something most people have or at the very least are willing to share or be open with.
as far as "being more aggressive", you said it yourself, just be yourself and don't sweat it...or at least do your best not to sweat it.
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you going to start charging me for your wisdom???
and i dont delete entries (except in the occasional situation where i upset someone else for speaking of them). i figure if you feel compelled to respond.. then i should take to heart what you said. so thanks for the response :)
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i've worn your boots before.....i think THAT is the worst part about dating. not the initial rejection from asking someone out, but hanging out for a while and talking and getting to know each other more and more....hell, maybe even some body rocking knocking tha boots....only to have them *poof* and vanish or just start backing away or just stop calling. i can't count the times that i've been upset by this and thrown in the towel and said "fuck it, i'm through dating....i can't stand meeting someone new to have 'em walk out of my life." i'm much like you in that i'd like to know what the other person is feelingly, but unfortunatly, emotional honesty is not something most people have or at the very least are willing to share or be open with.
as far as "being more aggressive", you said it yourself, just be yourself and don't sweat it...or at least do your best not to sweat it.
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