So here’s the deal.  I hear myself telling others that I think that a greater level of intimacy is possible between Chris and me.  And that isn’t the deeper truth.  The deeper truth is that I stay at surface levels of honesty in relationship.  I may tell the truth, on the surface, but there is a greater truth that I am often hiding.  And hiding is ( Read more... )

Chris and I are really working hard to clear things between us.  We’ve had the most amazing conversations of our entire relationship this week.  We've been able to identify the key issues in the relationship and how they keep popping up over and over.  Like I know exactly where I haven't grown enough yet to have a really healthy relationship.  ( Read more... )

So I'm scared to death.  And I'm so very sad.  And I'm relieved.  Chris and I are dividing up our belongings.  We have agreed to do this when we are both feeling mellow, even if only for a few minutes a day.  We have agreed to be adults through this process-to respect eachother and honor ourselves.  To act with integrity, fairness and honesty.  ( Read more... )

If you are interested in development, coaching or integral, this presentation is for you. The founders of Integral Coaching Canada will be in Berkeley for a presentation on 2/25/09. Please come and join!

Integral Coaching®
An evening presentation with the founders of Integral Coaching Canada
Thursday, February 25th 7:00pm - 9:30pm
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Museum of Broken RelationshipsWhat are you doing on Valentines Day? This is your chance to be a part of a museum dedicated to broken hearts! The Museum of Broken Relationships is on a world tour, displaying anonymously donated objects collected in cities all over the world. Between Singapore and Stockholm is San Francisco’s ( Read more... )

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Yes, I'm surfacing after a very long stint of deep cavern diving. Finding my way out into open air, open ocean, open mind, open heart.

I've had a niggling worry during my breakup with Chris. I've expressed this worry to some, and I've tried not to think about it too much, because it seemed there was no way to know. The only real worry that I've ( Read more... )

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Mother/Father God is the one vast creation, stretching over the millennia, through time and space, glittering on in perfect timeless wonder; infinity reaching every direction.  Ever reaching, ever breathing, ever creating, ever spreading loving marvel through the cosmos.  The One Life, the One Heart, ever-expanding in joy and exuberance for the ( Read more... )