Comments | onewomynarmy: Don't mean to be Debbie Downer but this is my life for past 6 months..

onewomynarmy

Don't mean to be Debbie Downer but this is my life for past 6 months..

Dec 10, 2011 15:32

Please try to be kind in your judgement of me while reading this post. It has taken me 6 months to gain the courage to write about everything....

I am learning very quickly how to deal with a massive amount of grief in a very short time. 6 months to be exact. I lost a very dear friend to suicide in June. My second father figure passed a week ( Read more... )

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j_me_peace December 10 2011, 23:53:39 UTC

You are so brave in your honesty. How many times does someone say they are ok and they are not?

Try to find help.

You are not alone.

onewomynarmy December 11 2011, 19:50:15 UTC

I've been saying I'm ok for months now... I'm not sure which to believe.
Thank you for taking the time to read this.

love_n_solace December 11 2011, 06:43:29 UTC

you have been through SO much in the past number of months. Grief and heartache unfortunately does not have a timeline or limit. I think it's awesome that you finally posted about all of this and got a little of it out of your head and gave others a change to support you :)

onewomynarmy December 11 2011, 19:52:17 UTC

I hear you. Thank you for your support.

love_n_solace December 11 2011, 22:37:49 UTC

of course. I know I'm not incredibly reliable when it comes to support right now. Please know that it has NOTHING to do with you, NOTHING... but it has to do with my capabilities to be a support at the current time. I'm trying to be there more for friends as I feel guilty for not having been. But I, like you, am trying to keep my head above water.