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[ontoayecheerldr]

At what point does it become compromise? This is a question that I have been struggling with here at Central. I figured I’d go into college and befriend everyone and try and be non-judgmental which I believe that I that I have done for the most part, no-ones perfect. But is there a point where you become too accepting?? I don’t know. My mom has

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[stewpidfairee]

honey i love that you dont drink. i mean you have made up your mind and i totally respect that you dont drink. it makes me happy. i mean i know plenty of people who set goals for themselves and then they back out. and the fact that you have that much personal strength shows me that you can do anything you set your mind to. and i know that may sound corney but its true. and i dont think you are preaching to us- at all. i think if you decided that you did want to drink with us i would be happy, but a side of me would be dissapointed i mean youve gone this far already. in no way do i think that you make a bad impression. the people who may think that obviously havent taken the time to get to know you, so they arent worth anything anyways! well i still have to write you, im a horrible person i know. anyways i love you and will see you in like half an hour! LOVE YOU BABER

[confuzed_girl]

There is nothing hipocritical about what you are saying. I could very well be biased because i am one of those people you hang out with and do those things, but i don't think it is. You are accepting of what they chose to do, just as you wish them to not be judgemental towards you. Don't feel bad with your choices. I LOVE YOU NICOLE!!!!!!!

[the_rj]

Nicole, I don't think you're being hypocritical, and I agree that going to parites and not drinking and letting people see that you aren't drinking but you're still having fun is great, I see what you're mom is saying about giving a bad impression, but I think that you have good enough judgement to know when you should be somewhere and when you shouldn't...also I think some people would be worried about temptation, but you have strong convictions and I don't think you have anything to worry about. Anyone who is judging you because of the choices you make should take a good look at their own lives first before they start throwing stones, don't let them get ya down, Luv Ya,

[prtyboiprincess]

No your not being hypocritical, not for a single second. Who cares if you go to parties and not drink and have fun. The point of parties is not getting drunk, its to have fun, and your having fun, mission accophised. And if anyone is stupid enough to judge you becuase of it deserves to be drug out into the street and shot, haha ok maybe not that extreme but you get the point. Alcohol has ruined ALOT of peoples lives and you gave yourself a goal to not drink until your ready, you are a very strong person, those who judge are just jealous because they are no way close to being as strong as you and need to be drunk to meet people becuase their personalities are lacking, unlike you. Dont change and never let anyone change you, ever.