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[onus_caiais]

so, it looks like my daddy will be having surgery. We'll find out for sure next week. He's going in later this week and they're gonna try cortizone treatments for his spine, but if that doesn't work, then surgery. Just one more thing for me to think about. I really hope they don't have to do the surgery though

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[lucanani]

you tell him, sarah! whip him into shape!

i hope your dad's surgery goes well, and i'm sure it will. i'll pray for him!

[senyen]

ooo...be oh so careful...
don't get too attached. don't just give him distance, give yourself some too. you already know you are not supposed to be doing all the work; you know it is not your job to save the relationship if he is not helping.

i don't know him, but guys who treat relationships in this manner you have described tend to not change, no matter how many times you ask, beg, or yell. they will stay in a relationship as long as you are willing to do all the work
maybe he will be receptive to changing when you talk to him - thats good!
but if not, don't wait around like i did for two years
pick yourself up, enjoy yourself and make sure he sees what he's missing.

good luck in your endeavors!
assert yourself as a woman!

[onus_caiais]

i tried, but when i got down there to talk to him I just couldn't say what I wanted to say. of course it would have helped if one of the first things he said wasn't "i haven't forgotten about you, girl"
bah I always forgive him and can't give him a piece of my mind.

[poxydoo]

yay for sarah!
i am proud of you
i hope things turn out alright
for your dad, too; i will pray for him if you would like