When Victor and I first started going out we had this thing were we'd say "hey" and then the other would say "what?" and the other would say "youre cute" or some other sweet thing. But we did it really often. After, I think a month or a month and a half, he said "Hey" and I said "what?" and he said "I love you." And that was the first time he ever said it to me. I asked him what made him come to the conclusion that he loved me and he didnt really give me a reason, but I was feeling like I loved him at the time too (I think I wanted to wait till xmas to tell him but he beat me to it). So I just believed him. If you do anything routine like this, then that might be the perfect way to tell him. I think a cute thing would be to hand-write a note and put it somewhere he'll find it after the 2 of you hang out. But then again you might seem cowardly. Id think itd be cute, but Im a girl.
hahah awww thats cute. i dont really think we have anything like that, on his xmas card i put "Love, Laura" hahaha and that didnt seem to bother him but thats way different i guess.
The note thing is a really good idea, like if I stay at his house I can write it beforehand and then leave it behind in the morning, he might think thats cute, I dont know. I guess I'll have to figure it out, but thanks sooo much for your input, youve been the most helpful so far! haha =)
No offense to your boyfriend but there isnt a time table as to how long it takes someone to really fall in love with another person. You either know you love the person or you dont. Point blank. I know I love Lauren very much and that didnt take me years to figure out. Only took 6 months....TOPS!
If you love this guy like you say you do then you have every right to feel that way and tell him how you feel. It's better to be honest now.
i know theres no time table, thats why i dont know when is the right time to say it. he kinda takes things slow and thats why i think he says it takes years, hes only really close to a few people.
but i agree, i mean, someone should know by 6 months if they have those feelings or at least if their feelings are going in the same direction. but i think thats when im gonna just let it all out, if i can hold it in before then, hahaha.
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The note thing is a really good idea, like if I stay at his house I can write it beforehand and then leave it behind in the morning, he might think thats cute, I dont know. I guess I'll have to figure it out, but thanks sooo much for your input, youve been the most helpful so far! haha =)
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If you love this guy like you say you do then you have every right to feel that way and tell him how you feel. It's better to be honest now.
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but i agree, i mean, someone should know by 6 months if they have those feelings or at least if their feelings are going in the same direction. but i think thats when im gonna just let it all out, if i can hold it in before then, hahaha.
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