um, not so much...

[ophelia427]

Trying to clean up the friends list.

I asked nicely. But then comments on that journal were mysteriously...gone. So, public lj message...Sacheen, please delete me from sweet_fa's friends list!

You, too, nicholasj. I'm just not interested, and it makes me highly uncomfortable that you both are still listing me.

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i think LJ should bite the bullet

[cagewench]

and either re-name the friends list or make it possible to have friends list ppl only allowed if both ppl agree. and then also list an "LJs I browse" list or something also that doesn't require permission back and forth that way ppl reading their friends LJs can see that although they may enjoy reading someone, that person does not neccessarily consider them a "friend"

Re: i think LJ should bite the bullet

[ophelia427]

I think that's some good ideas there! Friends lists are a pain in the butt, especially if someone lists you and you really don't want to list them back. Ugh.

xoxo

Re: i think LJ should bite the bullet

[cagewench]

*smooch*

:>

man, i think i am getting off the com for awhile... i can't believe that for the first time EVER that i've had to make a post and disallowed replies

*sigh*

Re: i think LJ should bite the bullet

[ophelia427]

IU knpow!!! Yeah, what is going one with the Cage and all? What happened? I was off the com for that period...email me if you feel comfortable doing so. I hope it's nothing horrid! much love, K8

xoxoxo and a hug for TXS, too!!

[ceridwyn]

haha

[ophelia427]

Seriously, though, I sent her a comment and I went back and there are no places for comments now!! Gross.

xoxo

[kathleens]

He's probably in jail. I hear they've cut back on inmate internet usage.

[ophelia427]

Haha oh my god, unfortunately you are probably right.

xoxo

[kathleens]

This weekend I was telling Andy the story of when he stole wine for my birthday last year and my dog was with him and they got caught. Thanks for bringing Gizmo along on that adventure!

[ophelia427]

Haha oh my god, I had forgotten about that stunt. I like how he tried to get free parking after Vegas last year. Classic! Isaac loves that story, too. But! I feel nothing beats the condom cake.

xoxo

[anewgirl]

I want to apologize to you. I think the last comment must have come out wrong. I really wasn't at all angry at you. I swear to God. I was directing it at the guy who commented yesterday. I know you weren't criticizing me. It wasn't you at all. I don't know how the meaning could get so mixed up.

I really apologize. Your comments touched me. I was talking about other people. Venting at you about those people, I guess. I am so sorry. Please forgive me. The comment I deleted the other day was because I felt bad about how I made the other girl's entry sound. I felt mad at myself. NOT at you. You have done nothing to me.

[anewgirl]

All that stuff after the first two sentences was me talking about how I was upset and why I was upset. I hope if you reread it you can see what I am talking about. I can understand how it could be misinterpreted, but I would never say those things to someone who has been as supportive as you. I feel awful about this.

[ophelia427]

hey no worries, honey. I know what it's like to have to vent. I think I read it wrong! I do that sometimes, mis-read. Thank you for your apology, you just seemed so upset, I thought we were all causing stress. but hey, i'm here, I'll listen. i've been through some shit, it may not be the same thing, but I'm a great rant listener! Don't let this add to you feeling bad, we're good.

xoxo

[anewgirl]

Thank you for forgiving me! Your comments made me feel better, including this one. I will try next time to be more clear with what I mean. I'm glad we're friends. :)