"trying to give someone something they dont want or can't see they need i'm learning is just a complete waste of my time and effort"\
Hold onto that thought. Its is a very seductive, pernicous desire, the desire to Help Others. Who are we, anyway to decide that we have the answers for another. Many people 'help' others and find they get no thanks, they may get a "who asked you anyway?". You can offer help, but if it is not welcomed, drop it, and let the person be who they are. Its always much easier to fix somone else than it is to fix ourselves!
ON the topic of being trapped in futility - dude, I can soo relate. God. I'm feeling really depressed right now, just because I'm sitting here trying to force myslef not to give up on writing. sigh. sigh sigh sigh
there must be a better way. I'm gonna make some tea and see if I can relax.
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"I can make you satisfied in everything you do, all your secret wishes could right now be coming true"
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Hold onto that thought. Its is a very seductive, pernicous desire, the desire to Help Others. Who are we, anyway to decide that we have the answers for another. Many people 'help' others and find they get no thanks, they may get a "who asked you anyway?". You can offer help, but if it is not welcomed, drop it, and let the person be who they are. Its always much easier to fix somone else than it is to fix ourselves!
ON the topic of being trapped in futility - dude, I can soo relate. God. I'm feeling really depressed right now, just because I'm sitting here trying to force myslef not to give up on writing. sigh. sigh sigh sigh
there must be a better way.
I'm gonna make some tea and see if I can relax.
good luck to you OE
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I think we should get married.
Our lives are entirely too parallel.
It's ridiculous.
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