Word of advice (for girls)

[orange04]

Any male who says things like... "I'm a nice guy, really. I don't know why girls aren't attracted to me." ...Is not a genuinely nice guy. They're just a whiny little self-centered douche. Give zero shits and run the fuck away.

Comments

[ellonwye]

Nice Guy syndrome is creepy and dangerous, they have a terrible attitude towards women and always feel owed something from them

[orange04]

Yep. I can't believe how often I hear these "nice guys" back up their pity stories by saying things like "Women only like assholes!" All they do is blindly blame others (like an entire gender) simply because they can't get what they want.

[accomesafterb]

ugh, I have a friend who has fallen into this category. He had one [count, ONE] relationship fall out with a girl. They weren't even dating, just flirting and she happened to go date someone else. That happened a few years ago and he's having a hard time finding a date. He's a good guy but he's starting to get on my nerves whenever he talks to me and brings out the "I'm a NICE guy, all the girls are already hooked up with assholes and I'll never get one!" and then proceeds to talk about how horrible and crazy women are. I tell him flat out that he's never going to get a date if he thinks and acts that way but it falls on deaf ears because "oh you have a s/o you'll NEVER understand."

Way too many guys fall into whining after just one or two bad experiences. Whining doesn't get you dates, and complaining about the gender you want to date isn't going to make them come running.

Edit: deleted comment was mine, but there was some GIANT typos in there.

[runcoyoterun]

omg, this is so true. i get this shit ALL THE TIME.

[alopex]

The genuine nice guys I know don't have to tell me they're nice guys :D

[banrai]

"I'm a nice guy" should be sending off the 'DOUCHEBAG ALERT' sirens, like.... every time.*

*Well, not every time. But at least 9/10 times.

[cambria_jacolf]

Anyone who makes a point to say they're nice...typically isn't D:
Good advice :D