Threadhopping/threadjacking: All over and anytime.
Attack/Injure: Yes. Amanda is average human and can be pwned by magic or better fighters; please ask before dealing injury or mutilation.
Intoxicate: Ask permission first? If she's drunk I may not be able to play her where I want!
Mindfuck/Rape/Torture/Kill/etc.: Y, N, M, ask first.
Hug/Kiss: Er, sure, but ICly she will react ICly.
Sex logs: This is a probably-not. Amanda is slow to let anyone that close.
Read your thoughts/emotions: Yes, but please PM rather than assigning them to her.
Anything you don't want brought up to this character? Animal cruelty.
Anything else? Nothing I can think of now. PM at the drop of a hat. Consider PMs your IMs.