How?

[originalred]

How do you tell someone you care about that they have hurt you? How do you support someone and be strong for them when you need comforting too? How do you get rid of your selfishness and grow up and swallow the pain you feel because you KNOW their pain is greater? Im hurting badly...BADLY...and the one person I can talk to about it is hurting much

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[13thfallenangel]

aaaaaiiiiii, but i can most definitely relate to that....heavens knows how i came out of that phase.....i think i came out unstable and more cynical and tired lol

but i say just ride it out, everyone is selfish and i would happily quote genjo sanzo over that. it's a matter of how much u r willing to go and do for that person, which includes temporarily shoving your emotions aside....and i stress the word temporarily!! there's only so much one can take. and yes, it's a lonely ride. rant all u want on ur LJ, we'll drop comments, but ultimately ur the one going through this so it IS a lonely road, sad to say. but it will come to pass like everything else, so just patiently wait for happier days.

cheers and keep your chin up