I hit Scott. Smacked him across the face. I feel terribly. This isn't how everything is supposed to happen. We were practicing piano, we're partners, and he kept calling me an idiot and taking his anger out on me during it. He asked what else we had to do, and I told him. The entire time he kept talking about how stupid piano was, how much he hated
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Hitting is never justified, and we as women shouldn't feel that we can get away with it... (Just because we aren't as big and strong as men)
However that said, You don't need to appologize or "make up" either... At least not right now. Your relationship with Scott it turning into something ugly. I had to make this realization in my own relationship with John. When things get out of control, and especailly when one party doen't know what they want or says they don't want you at all and you only want that person... you try to gasp them at anychance you can get. Hunnie, you can't hold onto something that doesn't want to be held! If you feel so out of control that you have to hit him .... this is not a good thing. You have to take some time and evaluate things, good and bad, and figure out why you would want to inflict pain (even if it was minimal) on someone you love.
Call me if you need to talk.
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