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owensgirlfriend

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Jan 18, 2004 00:17

I'm sick and tired of listening to people whine about how horriable their lifes are. If you're not going to make any effort to change the situation that you're in...then fuck, I guess you deserve it. If you're unhappy with the person you're with...FUCKING LEAVE THEM....If you're lonely....get out of the house and do something.....meet someone off ( Read more... )

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evamalone January 18 2004, 11:01:13 UTC

:( kick some sense into their ass maybe?

owensgirlfriend January 18 2004, 20:39:06 UTC

If that worked, I'd love to do it. But really, the only solution is to let people figure it out on their own...Oh well.

The process archer904 January 19 2004, 21:00:53 UTC

There are two components to one's mind and perception: thought and emotions. Each affects the other. For some people, the process is "Once I feel better I can take care of the problems," and for others, it's "once I take care of the problems, I'll feel better." Sometimes people just need to feel listened to. Even though they can't acknowledge it, it makes them feel better.

When you tell one of them you hope they feel better, and they don't acknowledge it with a thank you, they aren't saying "Fuck you," or "thanks for nothing," or anything of that nature. They're just wrapped up in their own problems and can't even see what's going on. 'm not saying it's right, I'm just saying it's not about you.

Re: The process owensgirlfriend January 19 2004, 21:59:58 UTC

I never thought it was about me, and I do appreciate your comments. This post was merely out of frustration. The only thing I cannot understand is how you can be so absorbed in your problems that you can forget your manners. No matter how crappy I feel or how bad my problems are, I will always thank and/or apologize for my ranting. Maybe I don't get as self-absorbed in my problems, or maybe I'm just too concerned for other peoples feelings.

Re: The process seraphim_lite January 22 2004, 14:29:39 UTC

Hey, I think who ever said that to you needs to get over it. I mean, you are a very nice person, you don't deserve to be treated that way. You are a pleasure to talk to, I quite enjoy our conversations. Even though they are far inbetween now, but thats not anyones fault. So how are you? It'll be good to hear from you again