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[paddle_or_die]

You know, there are times when i really hate what i've become after all the shite i've been through in the past four years. The past week has been a whole lot paranoia, self-loathing, confusion and misery. Really, do i have some sort of Inifinite Irrationality Drive that makes it impossible for me to maintain a state of happiness or optimism

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[capcom_queen]

Oh...wow. I really don't know what to say.
I have read before that it's a natural thing to call your significant other by someone else's name accidentally, but that doesn't change the fact that it hurts.
Hon, I'm so sorry. I can understand why you're so upset.
Have you talked to him about it? Sat him down and asked him what the deal was? I mean, maybe it's just an honest to goodness mistake.
*hugs* I'm here for you.

[strawberryfuu]

Well, I don't quite know what to say. It would definitely get to me if I heard my husband call me some other chick's name while he was nodding off, but perhaps he was just thinking he was somewhere else. I've done that before. I mean, I'm the girl who has asked her husband if he gave the cat a fresh coat of paint when I was half asleep. People say weird things in their sleep sometimes. I'd suggest having a good old fashioned talk with him. Ask why he keeps doing that, and if he apologizes just keep asking him why he does it.

All I can do from here is tell you that we love you and miss you and are here for you whenever you need us. *hugs* I'll send you pics of the baby when he's born. So far we're thinking either Justin Brennis, Connor Brennis, or Dylan Brennis. We've not made up our minds just yet as to the first name. ^^

[liquidturquoise]

*Hugs* I'm sorry sweetie that really sucks. Just give him a good kick in the balls every time he does it and that'll break the habit quickly. Hehe...just kidding. I'm sure he didn't mean it so don't stress too much about it. Knowing you that just went in one ear and back out the other but i've gotta try and tell you not to stress. Just talk to him and i'm sure it'll be ok. More hugs...love ya!

Sympathies

[dmalchemist]

Sorry to hear that dont really know what to say, it's not like anything I could say would help anyway. If I did that the Mrs. would castrate me. Guess the only question is has he known your sister longer than you? and do you think he really does harbor feelings for her or is it just a case of temporary brain-damage (or old fashion wandering eye) Wish I had some sagelike advice for you but thats the best I could come up with. Miss you and hope it works out one way or another

some wise sage-like advice

[dreams_adrift]

Yeah, right. I can't figure out what I'm doing so my advice isn't worth a whole lot, but I'm gonna agree with Liquidturquoise (sp?) That's gonna mess with your head for awhile, but from everyhthing else, it sounds like he really loves you and was just murmering half-asleep. Also agree with the swift kick idea, after the first few times we learn to stop doing whatever is the cause of this intense pain, or at least do it far enough away that we have a chance to hide.
Seriously though, talking and kicking help his memory, for you all you can do is to not focus on it and think of all of the other things right now that are making you happy. *Chingira destwoys mini Tokyo replica RRRWwwaaaaaarrr!!*