*hugs* I know you still miss her and that is fully understandable. She's still in your heart and with you in spirit. And your new kitty is there to help in her own way. Not as a replacement, but as something new to find a place in your heart.
I'll never get over her. She was not just the most beautiful animal in my whole world, she was also the most wise, loving and sharing creature I ever met. I am not sure it'll ever be that way (in her own way) with the new one, because we're not going along together that well. I never had so many scratches and bitemarks at once in my entire life as she's giving me now. And, no, it's not just playfullness. I know kitties, I have had them all my life. I don't know what I am doing wrong. I can only guess that she gets bored with me, because there is so little I can do because of my health issues. Perhaps it would have been wiser to get myself an older cat.
Maybe the new kitty is still adjusting? Perhaps she needs sometime before she becomes to used to everything. Maybe then she be a very content cozy cat.
I hope so but I am afraid that I took on a task that I can't really fulfill. 10 years ago, yes, but not today anymore. But thanks for being there for me.
Thanks for the pics of Bodhi, its so nice to put a "face" to the loved one you spoke of so well its almost as if we know him! I just love the way his eyes slant up and his cute cute little muzzles gives him such an authoritative air
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Thanks Janet. It's like you said, the adopted ones are a tad more special and my Bodhi, may all the gods bless her where she is now, was one of the latest abandoned kitties I ever took in 12 years ago. She would have gone to be dumped in a forrest but I was just one step ahead of this guy that she was from. Or should I say her mother was from, she was just born into the hell hole. She was grateful to the end to me and I never ever had a better pall
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Oh honey, I don't believe you did any "damage" to little Panda, she's just a kitten after all, and I refuse to think that any time spent with you would be a negative! She is so little she will carry with her the love you gave her during your time together onto the next family or person she lives with.....and an adorable kitten hopefully will be easy to place.
It's kind of a win-win situation, someone gets a frisky adorable kitty and an older cat gets rescued from a shelter and gets a lifelong loving home!
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She was not just the most beautiful animal in my whole world, she was also the most wise, loving and sharing creature I ever met.
I am not sure it'll ever be that way (in her own way) with the new one, because we're not going along together that well. I never had so many scratches and bitemarks at once in my entire life as she's giving me now. And, no, it's not just playfullness. I know kitties, I have had them all my life. I don't know what I am doing wrong. I can only guess that she gets bored with me, because there is so little I can do because of my health issues. Perhaps it would have been wiser to get myself an older cat.
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It's kind of a win-win situation, someone gets a frisky adorable kitty and an older cat gets rescued from a shelter and gets a lifelong loving home!
It's all good sweetie!
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