I know it is so difficult, sweetie. Even though her spirit remains, not having her in body is very hard to adjust to, but please remember you have someone who counts on you very much and who loves you very much - me! I wish I could take this sadness from you somehow.
They all say that, but can they, really? I mean, you're 54, you had one relationship that took longer then 9 weeks, 19 yrs ago and one that took about 6 weeks, 33 yrs ago, there is no one, there are no kids, no dad no mum, no sis, nothing. Not even friends(except on internet). The only real living being I ever had is gone for good, and I am going into the worse depression since 16 years and everyone understands that? That's very easy. Because not even psychologists are able to.
I should how ever point out that it is not just the loss of Bodhi but also of my father and the world I believed in that makes me this desperate. Nothing against you, my friends. Sorry.
Lizz so sorry that you are hurting so bad. Did not mean to say I completley understand your life but here is some perspective-I have never had a romantic relationship that lasted more than 1 date, so therefore no love, no kids. My dad is dead, my mom has dementia, my brother and I are not close at all, my firends are all partnered up and don't have time for a single girl. All I have are my cats and I have lost a few of them too and one just went through cancer surgery. And I have suffered from clinical depression requiring medication for over 10 years. When I lived along I lost both of my cats, one 16 and 1 14 in matter of 6 months-I can imagine what you are going through-it is not the same as you but I do have some idea of the amount of pain you feel. Please understand my staetments and my feeble attempt to provide consolation come from shared understanding of the love of pets and the sincere wish I could do more to ease your pain.
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I know it is so difficult, sweetie. Even though her spirit remains, not having her in body is very hard to adjust to, but please remember you have someone who counts on you very much and who loves you very much - me! I wish I could take this sadness from you somehow.
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What can I do, sweetheart?
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I mean, you're 54, you had one relationship that took longer then 9 weeks, 19 yrs ago and one that took about 6 weeks, 33 yrs ago, there is no one, there are no kids, no dad no mum, no sis, nothing. Not even friends(except on internet). The only real living being I ever had is gone for good, and I am going into the worse depression since 16 years and everyone understands that? That's very easy. Because not even psychologists are able to.
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