I feel like screaming at her, "I am here! You can't turn your back to me and pretend I don't exist!" I hardly feel human around her and she can't see that. When I talk to her sometimes my words fall on deafened ears, I could tell her my arm fell off and she would hardly notice. I try so hard to reach out to her because I care and fear losing her,
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Really sorry that you have had a difficult time. Though with regards to your most recent post, maybe I could help provide an insight.
Whenver I feel let down by my friends, or anyone, I will try to think of it as this - friendship or any relationship is always a 2-way thingy. Maybe your friend feels drained and tired, emotionally racked. She may need some time alone, a break, a safe haven and place to herself.
By confronting her, you may have triggered her defensive shell. (Prob writing a note or letter may be more appropriate). Something that does not allow anything else to get through. I'd suggest that you give her some time alone, and if she's breaking the friendship because of some selfish reasons, then let it be. We grow and learn from whatever experiences and encounters.
Hope it helps.
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