Life ?

[pandas_papa]

I did not every think.I would be at this point in my life,where I need a map and compass to find my way thought.

If you could trun back the time (would you ? or not).Knowing what you know now ?

Why do we do the things we do,and do things that hurt's us for someone else.

can anyone answer thses question's for me.

Thanks

Comments

[popicn]

If I could turn back time knowing what I now know would I? Hell yes. But at the same time what had happened in the past shapes us into what we are now. Why waste your time dwelling on the past? You have the present and future to look forward too. Why do we do the things we do? Well it all depends on what you do or did. Sometimes we do things out of love, we sometimes do things out of jealousy. Humans are very complex and who knows why we do certain things. It has been my experience that it is never good to think too much about such things, as you can’t fix, change, or do anything constructive with these questions. Plus you probably know the answers yourself but you don’t want to hear them.

[pandas_papa]

Thanks man,I know you are right.But it make you think,if it was worth it.Thanks again...............

[madkevinp]

Hey Stranger...I Wouldnt Turn Back Time...Everything That Has Happened In The Past Has Made Me The Man I Am NOW!!! Big Bear Hugs!!!

[pandas_papa]

Hey Buddy thanks,send me a e-mail ok I lost ur number mgaema@msn.com.Hope you are doing good,take care.

[callhimmissross]

Hey there! Like the others have written, the past is the past. Who says that you can not start all over again? And more importantly, who says that you HAVE TO HAVE a roadmap or compass? Did you have either when you started? Just make sure to take care of you .. just YOU!

[pandas_papa]

Yes but for the frist time in my life,I dont know wchie way is where,I ma just me good old country boy,But I will take care of the poblem soon.Thanks

[dj_airick]

For the first time I think you are realizing what it means to not be in control. Knowing you how I do, I know that this is foreign to you. The ever person of order and leadership. Sit down. Relax. Take two deep breaths and know you will be okay. You should never try to change the past. It would still end up the same with just different circumstances maybe some that were more painfull. Things happen because they are supposed to. There is a reason and even if it doesn't feel like it is for the best in the end know that it is and will probably end up okay.

We do things to hurt ourselves for others becuase we have been taught this. Look at the example we are given through religon. Christ allowed himself to be put on a cross to save others. He hurt himself for someone else. It is called sacrafice and it is typically done out of a feeling or knowledge of love for the other. It's okay. It's what shows we are not cold and selfish people. Just never regret what you have done in doing it.

Hugs Matt.

[pandas_papa]

It does not have anything to do with Control at all,Not like that,you might not know me like you think you do sorry.It has to do with ppl lies and using ppl things like that.

[sabrina_pandora]

O f course I would turn back time. Undo that which was done, reset the circumstances and make right that which was other than the way I would wish it. We all would.

But in doing so, the layout of the dominoes changes. One replaced tile in that dependent sequence changed changes the whole pattern. The further we branch out from that point, the more things have changed, the more the pattern becomes unrecognizeable.

But these are flights of fancy, nothing more. The reality is the here and now, the dominoes that we see before us, falling down one click at a time. Only these can we affect. Only these can we alter the course, and change the pattern of the dominoes yet to come.

Yeah. It's pretentious, but it's an answer. I hope it helps a little.

If not then there's always a mom hug.

[pandas_papa]

Thanks Sabrina a mom hug would be very nice at a time like this.Thanks I hope you had a great weekend.