Comments | panthergirl: On funerary hookups and other things..

panthergirl

On funerary hookups and other things..

Mar 12, 2010 16:14

I have a massive crush on someone. He was always around, in the background, and I never really noticed him until Dirk’s death. I like the way he handled things, quietly taking care of what I needed to be done. I can’t believe I never really noticed how awesome he is before this. I can’t believe I didn’t really pay attention to him. I can’t ( Read more... )

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panthergirl March 12 2010, 21:31:53 UTC

Oh yeah, that's what I'm doing. I'm on the phone right now with my bestest bud & he said, why stop it, "Especially when they make such good victims"?

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vicar March 12 2010, 23:20:34 UTC

Mike - Bullshit.

Z - Your post was brilliant and far above the curve compared to the usual human idiocy scale. Congratulations on appropriately moderating the heart with the rational mind. In all seriousness, I hope MANY others read this, understand the thought process, recognize when they're violating logic in a similar situation, and pull back before making train wrecks of themselves and those around them.

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And this... american_arcane March 12 2010, 22:08:42 UTC

...is one of the reasons you're awesome.

Self-knowledge and human interaction understanding for the win!

And isn't any time an easy time to get a guy? Heck, I'm pretty sure I could get one or two... not that I'd really have anything I'd want to do to them... but still. :)

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Re: And this... panthergirl March 12 2010, 22:36:38 UTC

Nah. Not over thinking it, just not "under thinking" it either. If you are going to do something stupid, you are twice as stupid if you can't clearly identify what you are doing.

Re: And this... xale_d March 13 2010, 22:57:45 UTC

Harold and Maude proves this. I suggest everyone re-watch it to be sure.

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panthergirl March 15 2010, 19:16:36 UTC

This is why you are one of those aforementioned best friends. At least this time I'm using my head. Avoids mocking laughter, ducks & runs for cover....

alumiere March 13 2010, 20:56:45 UTC

Go you. And thanks for sharing this; it's an excellent and well-thought out post.

And the comment on Dirk being disappointed in this behavior? Bullshit.

Having seen his happiness for friends in happy long-term relationships, and having seen him turn down easy sex in favor of waiting for things to be right when it was someone he wanted a more serious relationship with himself, he'd be glad to see you taking things slow.

panthergirl March 15 2010, 19:20:32 UTC

Interesting thought(s). Thanks for the reminders.