You know what I think about Sean after reading this? I think he is a boy instead of a man. You are carrying his child and that should be his top priority. Not some hoochie mamma that he lives with. I don't understand some girls. I mean, if I was with someone and I knew another girl was pregnant with his baby there is no way I would fight her for him. That's insane! Does it not register to her that he cheated on her? It isn't like you raped him or anything. God I'd like to smack her AND him both for you! lol She is just going to have to accept the fact that he is going to be connected to you forever by Hannah. Obviously he wasn't too happy with her to begin with or he wouldn't have strayed. Is she a crack whore or something? lmao Because it seriously seems like she doesn't have any sense
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she is pretty stupid. i know i wouldn't be with someone who cheated on me and got someone pregnant and still continued to cheat on me with...
but yea he has been to the doctor's with me...
and he bought my crib. but that's about it.
and i really don't want him to live with me because he is actually a heroin addict... he got into it really bad like around january and i don't want to deal with that. it makes me sick. i told him he could live with me if he went to rehab and got help...but so far he hasn't made any effort. and it sucks that the father of my daughter sucks. :(
but thanx for your advice you know i appreciate it :)
No need to thank me sweetie! I'm always willing to lend an ear to a friend. =)
I think you made a very wise choice about not letting him live with you. It really isn't good for babies/children to witness people using Heroin because they are very impressionable. I'm proud of you for putting Hannah's well being before your own emotions. She's lucky to have a mother as caring as you!
"and it sucks that the father of my daughter sucks."
Hopefully he has just reached a low point in his life and Hannah will be his motivation to get out of it. I think that everyone has some good in them and even though it might be hidden underneath the negative it is still there. I really do hope that he gets himself back on the right track because Hannah deserves a father figure in her life that is a good role model.
*Hugs* The best advice I think I can give is just to keep your head up. Whenever you're having a bad day remember that whatever is bothering you will pass. :)
anyways...he says he wants to go into a program and yesterday he was talking to some lady and she gave him a number for a shelter that helps people out...so maybe he'll actually go... i hope so...
aww hun im sorry. just think of the love youll have from ur little girl tho. i mean fuck him...i know thats hard to say when u love someone. but maybe this all happened so u could have ur little girl in ur arms. :)
yuh i guess it hurts because i care about him alot. and it seems like he doesn't care about me or the baby... and i know he is so unhappy with that bitch... and i can't do anything about it...
sean's an ass (because he's toying with you) and you need to decide whether or not you want him in your life.
if not, tell him you never want to see him again and leave it at that. if he calls you, stay strong and tell him not to come over.
if you do want him in your life, then you need to tell him that he needs to choose either you or her--and stick with it.
i understand that you have your baby to think of, too, which complicated things, but is joel your boyfriend (sorry, i'm still not up-to-date). maybe he'd help you out with the baby.
because he is in jail and has been for a while...though he might be leaving in a couple months if he gets his court date soon and a couple other things work out.
we were dating before he left and want to be together when he gets out...it's just so hard to just sit there and wait though ...even though i love him and care about him a lot.<3
i just wish sean would stick up to the cunt and be like look that's the mother of my daughter and i'm going to be there for her no matter what if he really wants to be like he says he does instead of being a pussy.
Lisa, I love you and you know that. Sean is an idiot for not just staying with you, If he doesn't have the courage to dump the troll, then he doesn't deserve you or his baby. He should know better then that, He needs to act like a man and get his pathetic ass in gear. He needs to be there for you and hannah and lose the stupid bitch who holds him back. But if he can't you will do just fine without him. If you need me, call me. I will come stay with you.
I haven't been online much this week, my grandma died. :(
sweety FUCK THEM. you have ur head on straight don't worry about whatever she is saying or making him do. you know in your heart whats wrong from right. keep your head up!
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i know i wouldn't be with someone who cheated on me and got someone pregnant and still continued to cheat on me with...
but yea he has been to the doctor's with me...
and he bought my crib. but that's about it.
and i really don't want him to live with me because he is actually a heroin addict...
he got into it really bad like around january
and i don't want to deal with that.
it makes me sick.
i told him he could live with me if he went to rehab and got help...but so far he hasn't made any effort.
and it sucks that the father of my daughter sucks.
:(
but thanx for your advice you know i appreciate it :)
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I think you made a very wise choice about not letting him live with you. It really isn't good for babies/children to witness people using Heroin because they are very impressionable. I'm proud of you for putting Hannah's well being before your own emotions. She's lucky to have a mother as caring as you!
"and it sucks that the father of my daughter sucks."
Hopefully he has just reached a low point in his life and Hannah will be his motivation to get out of it. I think that everyone has some good in them and even though it might be hidden underneath the negative it is still there. I really do hope that he gets himself back on the right track because Hannah deserves a father figure in her life that is a good role model.
*Hugs* The best advice I think I can give is just to keep your head up. Whenever you're having a bad day remember that whatever is bothering you will pass. :)
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anyways...he says he wants to go into a program and yesterday he was talking to some lady and she gave him a number for a shelter that helps people out...so maybe he'll actually go... i hope so...
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and i know he is so unhappy with that bitch...
and i can't do anything about it...
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sean's an ass (because he's toying with you) and you need to decide whether or not you want him in your life.
if not, tell him you never want to see him again and leave it at that. if he calls you, stay strong and tell him not to come over.
if you do want him in your life, then you need to tell him that he needs to choose either you or her--and stick with it.
i understand that you have your baby to think of, too, which complicated things, but is joel your boyfriend (sorry, i'm still not up-to-date). maybe he'd help you out with the baby.
i hope everything works out okay.
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though it is so hard to call him that right now.
because he is in jail and has been for a while...though he might be leaving in a couple months if he gets his court date soon and a couple other things work out.
we were dating before he left and want to be together when he gets out...it's just so hard to just sit there and wait though ...even though i love him and care about him a lot.<3
i just wish sean would stick up to the cunt and be like look that's the mother of my daughter and i'm going to be there for her no matter what if he really wants to be like he says he does instead of being a pussy.
argh.
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Sean is an idiot for not just staying with you, If he doesn't have the courage to dump the troll, then he doesn't deserve you or his baby. He should know better then that, He needs to act like a man and get his pathetic ass in gear. He needs to be there for you and hannah and lose the stupid bitch who holds him back. But if he can't you will do just fine without him.
If you need me, call me. I will come stay with you.
I haven't been online much this week, my grandma died. :(
I love you. Cheer Up.
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i know i'll probably be fine without him because as joel always tells me...he doesn't do anything for me now so why would it change.
im just in denial cuz i want her to have a father...and not grow up without one like i had to cuz thats hard.
but yes i heard about your grandmother :(
i love you
i miss you
i need to come see you.
or you need to come see me.
yes.
xoxoxoxo
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