Comments | papereater: Is this love that I'm feeling?...not me

papereater

Is this love that I'm feeling?...not me

Oct 23, 2004 15:05

I would like to conduct a survey sorda. I doubt I really will go through with it, but it would be interesting to see the results. Anyway I want to go around and ask every couple I know who says that they are in love, exactly why they believe that they are in love. So for those of you who read this and truly believe that they are in love with their ( Read more... )

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It isnt real veggiepicker October 23 2004, 18:43:06 UTC

oh silly, dont you knwo? Love is shit, and non existant. All these people that say they know what love is are just mistaking like with love. And many of those people know that they are lying to their lovers, in the greater scheme called manipulation. Its ok, they will be the ones chreating on their spouses later on in life and maintianing that psuedo relationship just for the kids.

gorgeousjamie October 23 2004, 20:37:03 UTC

I love Michelle Kwan.
She's amazing.

chunky_munky220 October 24 2004, 21:03:31 UTC

well as for love being shit, I think that is a stament by a sad person who has been hurt by somebody in some way, and im sorry for you. I have been in love with a wonderfull girl for at least two years now and I know for a fact, that love is what i feel. As for what I am in love with isn't her personality or her beautiful smile(which are great perks) its so much more than that. Love to me is when you lay down at night and you stare at the ceiling and you just can't help but wonder if that person is thinking about you at that exact moment. Love is when you can't relax or have fun if you don't know exactly what that person is doing at that moment. Love is impossible to explain, people have been trying to do it for centuries. If you notice,love is often explained in examples and not really feelings. just like I did, thats because love is a mysterious thing, and true, people often say that they are in love when all they want is sex, or if they just enjoy being around the person, or even so they're not alone. That is a problem. But I ( ... )

papereater October 24 2004, 21:38:11 UTC

Thank you Norman. You were one of the people who I spoke about being happy for because I never once doubted your love for Laura. Your relationship is the type that I look up to. You two have something deeper, I mean you guys go way back so you have been through a lot. The post is just about getting people to think about what being in love really is and maybe to take it more seriously...or something. I think you explained it close to perfect by the way.

gorgeousjamie October 24 2004, 22:42:44 UTC

Someone give this man an award.

Define Love poignantone October 25 2004, 22:57:29 UTC

Define love... that’s just it there is no definition. A lot of people confuse love for other things because they are still searching for its definition. Love is confused for lust, convenience, and faint emotion with a craving of love as an impetus to declare that one is "in love." the truth is that no one has a definition because it isn’t something meant to be defined. Love is all of a sudden not even thinking about other girls in a sexual way, missing someone before they even leave your side, being willing to forgive them for anything and being understanding of everything. Love is being there to help when your not asked and even when your asked not to, love is that feeling inside like something is missing the second you think about a person being gone for even a minute. Love is kind, love is patient, love understands, love is stronger than death and greater than life, love is a look in your eyes that only those who have had it can recognize. Love is consciously not manipulating someone even if it means you don’t get what you ( ... )