Women of the world!

[paperpants]

Okay, major question to all you girls!

(dun-da-da-dummmmmmm)

What does it take to get you attracted to a guy? Especially one you've rejected in the past. What is the secret? How do I do it?

Comments

The answer, by the way, is a motorcycle.

[moonglorious]

I feel as though this question is very subjective, sir.

Re: The answer, by the way, is a motorcycle.

[paperpants]

First, yes it is very subjective.

Second, you're not a girl.

Third, I think I need more than a motorcycle.

[tetrisattack]

Simple: take more pictures more often and post them.

[unblossomed]

i could give you answers you are looking for (like "suddenly engage me in a fabulous conversation!" "leave flowers at my door!" blah blah). although sometimes those work, they are far from reliable ploys.

some girls might not want to admit this..
BUT..

often what changes my mind is finding out that the person i might have rejected is actually cool in the eyes of other cool people. SO... get another beautiful girl to like you, and show it off. or be seen at the bars with fabulous people. or make certain HER friends love you.

if you can't convince her, others will.

we all hate games.
because they work.

[petitepoisson]

i second getting her friends to like you.

and games... i am the queen of endorsing games.
yes, they often work, but also are often short-lived. probably would have to refrain myself from recommending them to you.

hope life is otherwise treating you well!

motorcycles are dumb. try a BMW or a summer house on the mediterranean.

[lovelymischief]

if she rejected you in the past, she obviously knows you are interested in her. which means there is always the old "try and make her jealous by giving attention to someone else" thing.
to be honest though, girls are fickle. people are fickle. you just never know how they might react, or what would make them like somebody.

peter, andrew, eric, and derek were talking about this one "players" website or something once (i'm sure the name was much less cheezy...at least i hope it was...but thats all i could come up with for now). they said it was full of tips from guys who were good at picking up girls, and it had stuff like "field tests" describing what kinds of things have worked for people and what hasn't etc etc.
they claim it really works.

Re: motorcycles are dumb. try a BMW or a summer house on the mediterranean.

[claudiusthegod]

eric showed me that once. i didn't pay much attention mostly because it was so busy visually but they do seem convinced it works..i have a hard time accepting that that sort of thing actually works though.

paul...i don't get a good vibe from this one so my advice is find a way to get over your feelings and find someone else. you are awesome and if a girl doesn't manage to see that the first time i don't know if she really deserves a second chance.

Re: motorcycles are dumb. try a BMW or a summer house on the mediterranean.

[paperpants]

I'm a bit tired of being passive about things like this. If I say she gets a second chance, then she gets a second chance. And wait... Is that seriously a statement coming from you??? That if a relationship you really want doesn't work right off, you shouldn't still pursue it? Hmmm... Doesn't sound like Marple.

And hey, you never met her before disaster struck anyway.

Re: motorcycles are dumb. try a BMW or a summer house on the mediterranean.

[sackass]

it was these gentlemen, wasn't it? they surely get all of the ladies.