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paradise4writin

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Aug 06, 2005 18:23

Since my therapist isn't answering her phone, I am going to purge my soul here ( Read more... )

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paradise4writin August 7 2005, 05:20:42 UTC

I'll i-m you next time your on to have our therapy session.

Thanks for the kind words

paradise4writin August 7 2005, 05:50:06 UTC

duh...i should probally tell you what my yahoo sn is so you know it's me!

My sn is aberry15601

jamie2109 August 7 2005, 02:13:46 UTC

Cant you go to the Police? God, honey thats so terrible. *huge hugs*

paradise4writin August 7 2005, 03:58:22 UTC

*clings*

I've tried that...but I get the "she's a chick, how can she rape you?" act...so I have just given up on the police.

I just feel so dirty and cheep and used...but i'm glad that I have friends I can talk to.

Thanks for the hug hon. They really made me feel better.

jamie2109 August 7 2005, 04:05:57 UTC

What about sexual assault, harassment etc. there has to be a way of you getting her to leave you alone. A restraining order? You have a witness this time, please do something, or you're telling her it's ok to keep abusing you like this.

It's not your fault, love. Remember that. You can do this: you can fight back. You're a strong independent woman and you don't have to let her have that sort of control over you. Please? Don't feel dirty or cheap or used...feel fucking angry and direct that anger at the one responsible. Not yourself - her!!!!

*More huge hugs* anytime you want them.

paradise4writin August 7 2005, 05:26:00 UTC

*huge hug back*

My mind knows that she isn't in control of me and this isn't my fault, but my heart is having a hard time comming to turns with all of this.

I'm just glad that I have friends like you to help me through this really crappy time in my life

littleroo27 August 7 2005, 05:54:41 UTC

women can rape men and women. they can assault and harass you, and the police know that. and if they don't - you tell them that their superiors will be told of their lack of action. this woman needs to be reported for what she did to you in the bathroom. It's not acceptable. It's not legal, and it should not continue. What makes you think there aren't other scared women out there that she has attacked... be the one to do something about it.

paradise4writin August 7 2005, 06:57:29 UTC

At this point in time I don't know what I want to do. It's basically she said she said with no witnesses. And...I don't know if I could face her. She is the only person that puts more fear in my heart than my ex boyfriend.