I'm a multishipper so I'm able to adore both pairings equally because I feel both pairings are just as worthy as the other.
And I'm personally sick of reading all the Stelena/Delena bashing. It's come to the point where maybe the triangle should be the couple. Not that it would ever happen on the show but wouldn't that cut down on a lot of the bashing and bickering. :P
That's exactly why I decided to write that. I mean, on tumblr, it's just crazy how I get hate messages on my dash, I'm like What has Stefan/Damon done to you?? And I so agree on the threesome. I mean, come on, just get all together already! If you want to make it even, just add any girl of the show to you group I DON'T CARE! Lmao
This was a great read! Stefan/Elena/Damon is so much an OT3, It is not even funny. Personally, I am biased towards Stefan/Elena side of the triangle but I see that both Stefan and Elena need Damon to complete themselves and their relationship in a twisted way. I am open to Damon/Elena (I used to ship them in S1, actually but I have a lot of issues with Damon's character now and I can't ship him with anyone) too because I trust the writers and they have done a great job uptil now(not counting 2X10, I pretend that that episode doesn't exist). I trust them to make it seem organic and not destroy Stefan's character in the process.
I'm shipping Delena more this season, opposed to you, ahah, but I guess it's because the more twisted the more promising it sounds to me. I liked 210, esp. when Stefan sacrifices himself for Jeremy (and thus Elena) and I really loved their brotherly exchange. Like I squee more when I see Damon/Stefan interaction than Stelena, lol. I really hope that they won't put Stefan into too much pain, I won't be able to stand it, I love him so much, he's my boo.
No, it is not about them being twisted. I have always been open to them, but in S1, I liked the prospect of them together and looked forward to how the writers will make it happen and now, I am indifferent to it. They don't interest me anymore but I am still open to it :) I couldn't get past the sloppy characterizations and plot contrivances in 2X10. But, Stefan running into that tomb without a second thought is everything I love about him.
Pain would be inevitable :( but I just they don't make him OOC. I just love Stefan! He is my favorite character. So, I love his relationship with his brother, his girlfriend, his new BFF Caroline, his ex-gf Katherine, his girlfriend's bff etc etc lol
I forgot to add: The major reason I am different to them is because of the issues I have with Damon as an individual. I don't like him enough to actively ship him with anybody, sadly.
To me: Salvatores bromance > anything. Their bounding in the car: so much squee. Their talk in front of the tomb when Stefan just got trapped in: so much squee again. Damon's CARE PACKAGE in 211? oh em gee.
No, dear, thank you for writing it! :) It was necessary for many people, I should say. I love my ships and I support them fiercely, but I get why other people make other choices, I understand their reasons, and I would never act like a lunatic if anyone told me they have another ship. So I think your post will be very usefull to some people who take this all too seriously :) Well yes, I can't figure if I care more about D/S or D/E! I love Damon the most, but I do love Stefan too. They're awesome! No matter that their names try to convince us the one is an angel (in Greek "stefani" is what angels have around their heads - sorry I can't remember the english word now, plus excuse me if anything seems weird, english is not my mother tongue) and the other a demon, they are, as you said, two sides of the same coin, trying to fight their nature, but deep down they are more the same than different. Anyway, thank you again for this post :)
This is an amazing point of view on the show. Especially the part of both Paul and Ian being equal as brothers. I can only agree with what you've said. Amazing. Don't mind if I add you :D
I will never understand people having to bash on either of them. Have they not noticed that both of them have portrayed their character perfectly? (Although, I do have to say that Paul might have made a mistake, because in an interview he said that Stefan would keep going after Elena if she were to get with Damon instead of accepting it, while in the books Stefan does accept it). The show would be nothing if it weren't for them. And they're just amazing. I might be a big Ian fan, but I love Paul just the same and I'm not opposed Stelena.
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I'm a multishipper so I'm able to adore both pairings equally because I feel both pairings are just as worthy as the other.
And I'm personally sick of reading all the Stelena/Delena bashing. It's come to the point where maybe the triangle should be the couple. Not that it would ever happen on the show but wouldn't that cut down on a lot of the bashing and bickering. :P
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And I so agree on the threesome. I mean, come on, just get all together already! If you want to make it even, just add any girl of the show to you group I DON'T CARE! Lmao
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The show was built on a trio, why not take the most of it instead of wanting to reduce it to a couple?
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Stefan/Elena/Damon is so much an OT3, It is not even funny.
Personally, I am biased towards Stefan/Elena side of the triangle but I see that both Stefan and Elena need Damon to complete themselves and their relationship in a twisted way.
I am open to Damon/Elena (I used to ship them in S1, actually but I have a lot of issues with Damon's character now and I can't ship him with anyone) too because I trust the writers and they have done a great job uptil
now(not counting 2X10, I pretend that that episode doesn't exist). I trust them to make it seem organic and not destroy Stefan's character in the process.
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I liked 210, esp. when Stefan sacrifices himself for Jeremy (and thus Elena) and I really loved their brotherly exchange. Like I squee more when I see Damon/Stefan interaction than Stelena, lol.
I really hope that they won't put Stefan into too much pain, I won't be able to stand it, I love him so much, he's my boo.
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I couldn't get past the sloppy characterizations and plot contrivances in 2X10. But, Stefan running into that tomb without a second thought is everything I love about him.
Pain would be inevitable :( but I just they don't make him OOC.
I just love Stefan! He is my favorite character. So, I love his relationship with his brother, his girlfriend, his new BFF Caroline, his ex-gf Katherine, his girlfriend's bff etc etc lol
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Their bounding in the car: so much squee. Their talk in front of the tomb when Stefan just got trapped in: so much squee again. Damon's CARE PACKAGE in 211? oh em gee.
Thank you for reading all of this anyways!
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It was necessary for many people, I should say. I love my ships and I support them fiercely, but I get why other people make other choices, I understand their reasons, and I would never act like a lunatic if anyone told me they have another ship. So I think your post will be very usefull to some people who take this all too seriously :)
Well yes, I can't figure if I care more about D/S or D/E! I love Damon the most, but I do love Stefan too. They're awesome! No matter that their names try to convince us the one is an angel (in Greek "stefani" is what angels have around their heads - sorry I can't remember the english word now, plus excuse me if anything seems weird, english is not my mother tongue) and the other a demon, they are, as you said, two sides of the same coin, trying to fight their nature, but deep down they are more the same than different. Anyway, thank you again for this post :)
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I was so tired of people bashing on Stefan because "he's boring" so I wanted to clarify some things.
I added you back!
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