Comments | paragrin: Must change self

paragrin

Must change self

Oct 12, 2005 11:18

Tired of trying to be nice to people when they're down, and then having it shoved in my face. Need to stop that like I was told I should. In the end, it really does nobody any good. It costs me time, effort, and usually money in some form of another. It costs them the experience they would have gained by going through the issues themselves. Plus it ( Read more... )

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pisceskitty October 12 2005, 16:42:35 UTC

*frowns* I like you the way you are. You have always been very kind to me with no true reason...just...always have been from the first day we met. I really like that and appreciate it. I agree though...people do have to learn to stand on their own. There can be a balance though between friend and counsel. You just need to find it.

paragrin October 12 2005, 16:48:15 UTC

Always been both, even back in school my time could be more booked than the actual counselors at times. Especially around the times for asking people to dances and whatnot. It's who i was/am, and what I did/do. I just think it's time I got past it though. These days it seems kindness is too often mistaken for weakness. And weakness for unworthiness. And damn I sound whiny. Sorry about that. Going to shut up now.

::::Crawls out from under ungodly stack of papers and text books:::: lizziethered October 17 2005, 11:51:29 UTC

Though I don't believe in any true form of altruism, theres nothing wrong with RECIPROCITY, problem is knowing and dealing with people that own a dictionary and have at least the vaguest clue as to how to use them.(in ( ... )