Thanks! I know I wish it could work out. If only my house was bigger. It's not even 1000 square feet. I have stuff in my extra bedroom along with my two birds. Plus the closet in there is full. I could throw some clothes out I guess that don't fit anymore, but I'm still not sure I could free up the closert completely. He's even said it was too small for him here. I would have to move the birds into the living room which really there isn't room for them. And it would stress them out at least for awhile changing like that. Plus I'm not sure what having them in the same room as the ferrets would do. I could make room somehow but still. I have other stuff in that room too. I dunno. I have a lot of thinking to do!
I think the doctor had warned her about the bird dust so that's why they have their own room? I forget, thought I read that in a post somewhere on here once.
I think people have all sorts of different relationships. I have one friend that managed to stay in her relationship for 4 years during her and her bf's university years. After school they only saw each other on weekends even though they lived in the same city because it worked out so well while they were away and she also likes her space.
That sounds like me haha. It's so weird because I've always wanted someone in my space but now that I have someone that wants to be, I'm like no. I think it stems from being by myself for so long even during the times I was in a relationship. We shall see! I know no one would ever be as good to me as him.
There's definitally all sorts of relationships out there- the traditional "man and woman married" sort of thing is rare these days I think honestly ... there are a lot of very different types of realtionships from roomates who are involed with eachother here and there to multiple partners to gay/lesbian to you name it. I don't get into details of my relationship, some things in the past etc that some people would look down upon but I will say we have had some things in our marriage which other would view as different. It works for us. So I have a very open mind so it doesn't bother me and you just have to find what works for you in your life. No rush, it's a step by step process.
I'm gonna kind of repeat my comment above...It's weird because I've always wanted someone in my life all up in my grill. But now that I have someone that wants to be I'm like no. I think it stems from being alone for so many years...even when I was in a relationship, I always felt alone because I never got what I needed. We shall see what happens!
I love married but also want my freedom and my space. I do have clingy moments but there are some days I want to be alone. It works out since we both work different hours and he gets into his video games for hours on end. So I take that time to be alone and do my stuff.
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