bi boyfriend
x-posted to partners_of_ftm
He told me this the other day, and said it was such a relief to have figured this out, and therefore I should also be delighted. I wasn't. For some reason I felt, and still feel, really threatened. It is of course ridiculous, because as an ex-dyke who is now with a transguy I am technically bi too. So why am I finding his new found sexuality so hard to deal with? My last girlfriend was also bi and I had no problem with that. Talk about double standard.
When I met him he said he was '100% into women', and now it's 50%, so guess I'm worried that the percentage will keep shrinking as transition proceeds. I always wondered why he had more pairs of shoes than me...But seriously, I'm freaking out and I'm astonished at my own reaction. So I thought I'd post it up and see if anyone has had a similar experience.
Thanks for the comments on partners_of_ftm
It was recommended there that I also post this here.
He told me this the other day, and said it was such a relief to have figured this out, and therefore I should also be delighted. I wasn't. For some reason I felt, and still feel, really threatened. It is of course ridiculous, because as an ex-dyke who is now with a transguy I am technically bi too. So why am I finding his new found sexuality so hard to deal with? My last girlfriend was also bi and I had no problem with that. Talk about double standard.
When I met him he said he was '100% into women', and now it's 50%, so guess I'm worried that the percentage will keep shrinking as transition proceeds. I always wondered why he had more pairs of shoes than me...But seriously, I'm freaking out and I'm astonished at my own reaction. So I thought I'd post it up and see if anyone has had a similar experience.
Thanks for the comments on partners_of_ftm
It was recommended there that I also post this here.