why don't you go fuck a sheep or your sister or yourself...

[partyarty25]

grr ok I'm tired of bull shit and I'm tired of trying to be the nice guy. but there is this asshole that won't leave me the fuck alone. I don't want to date him, I don't want to be anything with him and yet he continues to message me...to text me...to leave me emails all to make me feel bad. I want him to be happy but he won't get it through his

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Is this a wake up call or is the handset is up your ass?!?

[sparkling_ice]

Everybody has used a person or people at one time or another in their lives, regardless of how small or big the pay off was...favours, helping hand, advice, small talks, chit chats ya-di-ya-da...all fall in the "using people category

Re: Is this a wake up call or is the handset is up your ass?!?

[partyarty25]

hey I thank you for your reply you have always been so honest with me. but to tell you the truth I have never touched this guy...he told everyone I was his bf whenI moved to LA..thenI came back and he had to face the truth...I just watn him to leave me alone...I have never...on my grandfather's grave...touched this nasty person. he has an ugly soul and is just not good...i want him to forever leave me alone. but thank you for your honestly...I agree with much of what you say....and I am living my life to LIVE it...I just hope everyone else is too....just because i dont' know if I'm coming or going doesn't mean I'm not happy with what I am doing....I am here to support my family, my friends, and myself....this is my life..my world...and my day.

Re: Is this a wake up call or is the handset is up your ass?!?

[sparkling_ice]

I live my life day to day, do what i feel like, say what i want, finsih what i want to finish, start what i want, leave what i want to leave, I cherish everyone who respects me and keep my family always a priority...my point is, you and me are a dying breed.

Happiness is not the goal of life...but rather...the way of life.

[coolsnak3]

he was dirty. you can do better than disgust.

[partyarty25]

yeah you and I have similar lives in this aspect. This guy lost some 30 or 40 lbs cause he wanted to be thin for me...tried to stop smoking cause I dont like it, etc etc. People just have to be who they are. You can't make someone like you...it just has to be. But I did what you did..tried to be a friend and they gives that person a glimpse of hope...as false as it may be. But you're doing the right thing...ignoring his attempts...as harsh as it might sound..but he has to move on and he can't if you kept replying. I went 6 weeks w/o saying anything to the guy but he just really wouldn't leave me the hell alone...so this was my attempt to scream. Thanks for the message.

[ashfault76]

Sorry to hear you're in this situation. I've found myself in similar binds before, but never to the extreme you're experiencing. I guess all you can do at this point is just hope that he eventually gets the hint and leaves you the hell alone.

There *are* decent guys in Bloomington...at least, that's what I keep telling myself, even if I haven't found them yet.

:-)

[socaldummy]

I'm sorry. ~hugs~

When the right guy comes along, you'll know. For now, keep enjoying your life ... you seem to be doing pretty well. :-)