Nice Guys Finish Last

[passionchris]

It’s amazing that assholes can get girls. Actually, now that I think of it, it’s not that amazing. They are assholes at heart, but to meet girls they lavish their undying love. IT’S A CHARADE. They act nice, friendly, and they listen… until they get into what they’re after. Their prey thinks they are in love with them, however when they

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[musiczombie77]

Sorry Chris, but join the club. Girls feel that way too when nice guys go out with Bitches just because they are hot and have big boobs. And if your the nice guy and you like the girl, let her know, other wise she is never going to know how you feel. You don't just "wake up" and realize someone likes you because they have been treating the same way all along. SHOW her that you like her, tell her. And if she doesn't like you even if you do tell her, then I'm sorry, but everyone gets rejected, and it hurts every time. Girls don't want guys that are assholes. You can't control who you have feelings for, even if that person turns out to be an asshole. Yes, girls do try to change guys even though they wont. We just want things to work out. You can't make generalizations about people.

Not Speaking for All

[passionchris]

I'm not trying to speak for everyone when I say this, but I know that I myself would NEVER date a bitch. All the women who I've ever planned to have a relationship with have been pure at heart. I don't know why, but I tend to go for the troubled ones. The ones that need help in their life

[straythought]

I hate to say it but you are right. I don't know why we women are so attracted to the scummiest of guys... I think it's the bad boy look that does it... I had a young female teacher who said once that she wanted a guy with the bad boy looks, but good guy heart (she had the right idea). It's hard to find that combo though

Booty

[passionchris]

Not all nice guys just want booty. Believe it or not I just want a good healthy relationship with someone.

I'm still a virgin and I'm proud of that. I have a certain set of values and morals that wouldn't allow me to be anything else. It's not part of my religion, I just think that it would be best to only get with the one that I really love.

Maybe all the nice guys and girls should get together eh?

[musicfreak928]

I agree that many women fall for the asshole guys. But what can we say, that bad boy image just gets us. And no girls are not idiots. I agree with musiczombie77 that guys pull the same crap as girls when it comes to choosing the wrong person to be with. Sometimes I wish the assholes and bitches would just get together and make each other miserable, instead of all the nice people. If you really like someone and they haven't noticed then you might need to hint.. like hold up a big yellow sign or one day walk up to her, grab her, and give her that passionate kiss she has been waiting for. I had a friend who liked me but didn't say anything to me (and no I wasn't dating an asshole at the time), so instead he tried to have one of my best friends break me and my ex up. After I had broken up with my ex (my own choice, not because of the friend) he still didn't say anything to me. I wouldn't have given him the chance after what he did any way. If he would have said something to me and not stabbed me in the back, then I might have thought of

She knows

[passionchris]

She'd rather be with the asshole. She knows about my feelings, as all of the past girls that I've ever been after have. They don't care. I'm not afraid to let the girls know how I feel. The problem is that it never matters anyway.

You can trust me with my relationships and issues... I would NEVER try to break someone up with the person that they are with. I believe that everyone finds their someone in one way or another for a reason, be it that the girl IS dating an asshole or a genuine nice guy.