Comments | pavela: Is it possible for men and women to be JUST FRIENDS?

pavela

Is it possible for men and women to be JUST FRIENDS?

Mar 29, 2009 20:05

I'm just curious what everyone thinks ( Read more... )

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sleepingbeauty March 30 2009, 00:17:02 UTC

Yes, I do think it's possible for men and women to be just friends. Although most of my male friends have been gay, so maybe I'm not the best one to say, lol. One of my friends had a very close guy friend and he just told her they couldn't be friends anymore. His girlfriend didn't understand. *rolls eyes.*

I don't think male friends get attached as much as female ones do, so maybe that's why you're not hearing from them as much. Or yeah like you said, maybe life just got in the way. Sadly, I've found that with either males or females, sometimes friends come in and out of your life. Doesn't mean you were never close, just something happens.

flirtygurly109 March 30 2009, 02:25:52 UTC

i think guys and girls can be just friends. i mean i think one person may always be attracted (physically, emotionally, or both) to the other, but not to the degree that makes it awkward or anything. i also think that just because you arent friends with someone anymore doesnt mean that you werent friends to begin with. sometimes life just happens and theres nothing you can do about it =[

dingdongdead March 30 2009, 03:22:28 UTC

i think its possible but very rare. its much easier if one of you is gay...

not_dear_abby March 30 2009, 12:05:48 UTC

I've thought about the same thing. I'm actually in a friendship with this guy Chris and we used to be just friends, but now it's kind of a confusing thing because he's going through something with this other girl but he likes me and we've been spending lots of time together. So I don't know. I think that you can be just friends though. I went to a technical high school where it's mostly boys, and in my shop it was all boys except me, and all my boys there were strictly friendship I'm pretty sure...

elodie21 April 4 2009, 13:18:22 UTC

I am sure guys and girls can be just friends. Some of my closest friends are guys and we never had any romantic feelings between us. One of my friends, now in UK, sometimes we don't talk for months but when we do communicate again, its like we were talking daily. So yes I am very sure, from personal experience, that guys and girls can be just friends.