Don't trust anyone online

[pckledfetus]

m00n OR ERIC FROM THE CONTORTION COMMUNITY IS SOMEONE WHO I HAVE TALKED TO FOR MONTHS AND I SENT HIM PERSONAL MESSAGES OR CONVERSATIONS, VIDEOS AND PICTURES BECAUSE I TRUSTED HIM AS A FRIEND. I FIND TONIGHT THAT ALL OF THESE IMAGES AND VIDEOS WERE UPLOADED TO HIS SITE AND THIS APPARENTLY WAS AFTER I TOLD HIM ABOUT THE VIDEO DRAMA I ENCOUNTERED

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[xdowncastx]

Yea... he IMed me wanting to take pictures and Phoebe told me we should all take pictures together sometime with him and I declined. The only person allowed to take MY picture is me or my friends. Not any man ever. Especially after getting my senior pictures taken which are probably now only God knows where haha. I'm sorry about this, that's very wrong of him to do :(

[pckledfetus]

Yeah I was a lil weird about taking pics with all of them too...:sigh: It's ok. I was spazzing out for a bit, but I feel a little better right now, thanks so much for responding.

[belacane]

he saves every livejournal note i've made to him on my journal or anywhere....

[pckledfetus]

wow, really? Every comment?

[belacane]

that's what he himself told me. i don't doutb it.

[magicfuzzball]

i save pictures that inspire me too. i've got several folders: poses for figure drawing, photographs and models i admire, etc. but i don't have a file full of stuff from a single person i don't know... weird.

[pckledfetus]

Yes, I'm the exact same way...I have a lot of artwortk, photography or makeup and hair pics on my computer. Some people don't seem to understand why individual folders of a person you don't even know is weird. Which is the case with the pics of my ex.
I could understand the pictures of me being there if they were just pictures that I had no problem showing to other people. Maybe the pics I have on myspace or posted in the community, but not personal pics that were only meant for close friends and not the whole fucking net world. A lot of pervs look at his site because of all the contortionists and I do not want them seeing me naked or watching my videos or reading my conversations. Arrghhh...why am I still pissed off about this? K, I'm done...lol

[magicfuzzball]

i never really thought of contortion as having a big following of perverts. that's superlame.

[grail76]

I think if you ask him to delete an image after he views it, he should do it. Lots of people keep records. It's not creepy as such but then there are creepy people who also do it.

[pckledfetus]

What bothers me is that he said he would delete them and he didn't and then I find that instead he has continued to save everything. I know a lot of people save things, that's not what bothers me. What made me so upset was that he literally saved everything...I sent him a personal im conversation I had with my bf and asked him for "guy advice" on whatever my bf and I were talking about. He saved the personal convo. And then I see it uploaded on a site along with a folder of my bf and pics of him too. Someone who has never spoken to Eric before at all. I don't know why anyone would need to save that...I've had issues with people stealing pics, harassing, stalking,etc so its a touchy subj. for me. I feel that he should not be in control of who knows or sees things related to my personal life.

[grail76]

Has he taken it down since you asked him? If I'd done the keystroke thing and "accidentally" uploaded your content and you called me on it, I'd have pulled it down right away.

If it hasn't been pulled down, an e-mail to his internet provider often gets a good reaction.

[pckledfetus]

Yeah he did. I'm glad I could reach him. I wondered if he just moved it somewhere else but I think they're gone. I wish he would just delete them. :-/