My dear heart Oliver, I do know you and am aware of your life situation, to most degrees. Pendle Hill was and is a big warm loving hug that has nourished you for a year. It is hard for anyone to leave such a wonderful place, even if one is just there for a day. I know, cause that is how I feel every time I am there and leave. And it is scary not having a home to go to. I know that talking about disability is not any part of your reality. I worked for years with lawyers and money to get Shante on SSI. It is very hard. I was thinking about John Calvi, you asking advice from him. About a place to stay to have a start. There are no easy answers. I can't offer you a place now, even discounting the kitty litter because of my living situation in a nursing home. You know I am holding you in my heart. Call me if you would like. I am trying to vision the perfect place for a sweet round purple headed person. I recommend visioning. But I also know the value of a safe place to sleep. Much love, Ahavia
we have a futon if you need it. <3 but of course it's in NJ, and we don't really have any job opportunities nearby. :-/
(actually, we're going away this weekend, so if you'd want to spend some time with sadie, that'd be awesome! then we don't have to pay the dog sitter. ha!)
That's a craptacular situation. If you lived in upstate NY, I'd have a guest room for you. As it stands, I hope you find resolution to your situation soon.
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I do know you and am aware of your life situation, to most degrees.
Pendle Hill was and is a big warm loving hug that has nourished you for a year. It is hard for anyone to leave such a wonderful place, even if one is just there for a day. I know, cause that is how I feel every time I am there and leave.
And it is scary not having a home to go to.
I know that talking about disability is not any part of your reality. I worked for years with lawyers and money to get Shante on SSI. It is very hard.
I was thinking about John Calvi, you asking advice from him. About a place to stay to have a start. There are no easy answers. I can't offer you a place now, even discounting the kitty litter because of my living situation in a nursing home.
You know I am holding you in my heart.
Call me if you would like.
I am trying to vision the perfect place for a sweet round purple headed person. I recommend visioning. But I also know the value of a safe place to sleep.
Much love, Ahavia
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First, *hugs*. Second, let's keep talking about possibilities for the next month or two. I want to support you however I can, even if I am exhausted.
xo, Beth
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(actually, we're going away this weekend, so if you'd want to spend some time with sadie, that'd be awesome! then we don't have to pay the dog sitter. ha!)
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I think I'm going to NYC with Randi this weekend but maybe some other time!
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