Three play parties, couple cage nights, other play
Lately I just haven't felt so motivated to write here. I keep telling myself, "should just start writing", but even now, just not feeling the passion for it that I often have. But maybe if I make myself do it, something will start flowing?
So going back to the end of April, Arecee's Femdom party was quite a bit of fun. First got a short but intense from Ar, bent over that rather strange but incredibly secure spanking apparatus. This time she locked my ankles down too, and it held me completely helpless as she delivered lots of quick painful swats. Then later played with S, mostly a longer session of spanking and caning while strapped to that metal cross (see photo from previous Femdom party).
We tried a "community play toy" activity at this party, where certain slutty submissives could wear a tag, basically allowing any top at the party to just "take" them for certain play (which they wrote on their tag). Turned out a little differently than I'd hoped. Everyone is "too polite", as we've realized... but it did really seem to work to break the ice for a number of newer and single folks. Arecee is still thinking of doing it again for the next party, possibly with some changes.
Oh, it's been so long ago... sometime during the week, maybe it was on Thursday, she put me in the sleepsack for a couple hours, and then locked me in the cage all night, no blanket, no pillow. There was one other cage night more recently, but she was feeling nice and gave me the blanket and pillow.
The first weekend in May was another party (yeah, a play party every Saturday since the last update). This one was a volunteer appreciation party for Kinkfest. Played with Kay. First time I've played with her, and it was indeed quite a lot of fun. Kay is a younger women, probably early 20's. She's shorter, short curly dark hair, quite cute/attractive. She has a lot of gleeful energy. She's also a switch. At least that Saturday, not at all into domination, but certainly interested in inflicting pain. She said she loves slutty "oh yes I want it" play energy from her bottoms, not the "oh please no more" kind of helpless victim. So I was slutty (yeah, imagine that!!)
Kay has long nails, and I believe they were filed somewhat to sharper points. She used them to scratch and dig in. Of course, there was plenty of beating with toys, mostly the paddles and sometimes she used her hands. At first she had me tied up to a vertical ladder-like structure in the corner, and later moved me over to a massage table, where much more swatting, slapping and scratching commenced. Fun time. More than anything, the scene had a fun "pure sensation" kind of feel.
I believe it was during the week between this party and the Kinky Karnival that Ar gave me a pretty good spanking at home. Hmm... or maybe it was just before that party? Been a while, but it was to the techno disc, with the usual wood paddle with the holes. She went for about 40 minutes, stopping when my skin started to get rough but wasn't bleeding yet.
About a week ago, Ar and I were talking just before going to sleep (she's had me in the bed all but just 2 nights over the last 3-4 weeks), about how often to do beating. It was decided that she'd give me a beating, even if only a short and quick one... daily! Well, so far maybe one day has been missed, and so far it usually turns out to be just a quick several swats of her hands on my ass.
So, last Saturday was the Kinky Karnival event. We showed up for the last hour of the carnival part. Just socialized... didn't play any of the silly yet perverse games. Went our to dinner with some friends there, and walked back over about an hour before the play party was to start. Much setup was going on, and we helped a bit.
Just as the party was starting, Ar took me to a little stocks, locked me and in gave me a little hand spanking. Being locked in this rather uncomfortable metal stocks was surprisingly exciting. Soon she let me our and took me over to a large St. Andrew's cross and tied my arms up to the top. She gave me a lengthy flogging, using several of the floggers on me. During much of this, she had the red ball gag in my mouth. She then moved to using her single tails. I really like the 3 foot Morgan whip! The little 2 foot Patterson really bites a lot more. I was able to take it better this time, but the 3 foot one has a much better "fun factor". Somewhere around here she took off the gag, and I'm sure I was stuggling and making some moans and screams. She let me down from the cross. It seemed like the scene wasn't all that long, but in fact she told me we'd been playing for 45 minutes!
By this time, the party was really going and all those pieces of furniture which had been vacant when we started were now in use. Arecee was very pleased to see at least 4 other boys were being tortured by women. Sometimes at these parties it all, or almost all women bottoming. Ar went to socialize in the front area, and said I could wander around and play again if I found a date. I'd talked with at least 3 other potential tops earlier in the evening or at recent munches... but all were elsewhere or already playing. Turns out, a women I've only met maybe a few times was nearby while I was chatting with some other folks, and she asked if I wanted to play :-) Oh yeah, of course.
In just a few minutes, I was tied to another cross.. this one a little smaller, not quite as sturdy, and right in front of a little social area where several people were watching us play. Miz Tee has quite a sadistic streak, and she indeed did a lot of swatting with the crop and rubber paddle. Lots of striking sensitive skin, like my calves, under arms, sides of my hips, etc. She'd give me maybe 5-10 swats rapidly, getting me screaming and frantic, then rest a moment, and repeat. Over and over. Not sure how long we played, but it must have been a while. So much screaming. She seemed to really like that. The room had gotten pretty hot, and we were both sweating quite a lot. Eventually she said that was about as far as she felt like going our first time playing, but somehow I talked her into just a bit more. I probably said sometime like "it's ok... it's just pain". Ok, such a slut I can be! But eventually my throat was getting pretty dry from screaming. Yeah, she really brought it out, over and over and over. By then it was almost midnight (the party had started around 8:30).
There was another women I'd talked with, who had been playing, and really wanted to give me a caning (perhaps with a little help from Arecee). But Ar was getting tired, and the party was only scheduled to go to 1am. So we left around midnight. There's a pretty good chance I may get that caning soon, maybe at the party coming up this weekend. Yes, yet another play party. That'll be 6 Saturdays in a row! (though technically we didn't play at the party that was really busy and Ar took me home for feeldoe fucking action).
So last night (Tuesday), we hosted a small dinner gathering for birthday spankings for P... who is a woman who's fairly new to Portland and been to munches regularly over the last couple months. A number of friends couldn't make it, for various reasons. In attendance, Heatsbane, Kiara, BambooNoir and her boy, Hotpockts, Arecee & me, and P (no LJ). It was her birthday, and believe it or not, even I spanked her! Even a little bit of firm spanking. I'm not sure how tops do it, keeping the paddle striking both cheeks evenly. Arecee and Hotpockets and BambooNoir really gave her most of the "real" spaking. Kiara too. No other play that evening (and Ar had done my "daily beating" with several quick hand-only swats early in the morning).
Well, guess I can still write a lengthy entry. But still, a lower level of energy for writing here. Not sure why. Maybe it'll pass?
It's getting close to 5am. As often happens, I woke up in the middle of the night, unable to sleep. Ar's alarm should be going off soon. Usually I get back into bed to join her as she wakes up (but not before, since that disturbs her sleep), and usually I sleep a bit more as she gets ready for the day and heads out to work.
So going back to the end of April, Arecee's Femdom party was quite a bit of fun. First got a short but intense from Ar, bent over that rather strange but incredibly secure spanking apparatus. This time she locked my ankles down too, and it held me completely helpless as she delivered lots of quick painful swats. Then later played with S, mostly a longer session of spanking and caning while strapped to that metal cross (see photo from previous Femdom party).
We tried a "community play toy" activity at this party, where certain slutty submissives could wear a tag, basically allowing any top at the party to just "take" them for certain play (which they wrote on their tag). Turned out a little differently than I'd hoped. Everyone is "too polite", as we've realized... but it did really seem to work to break the ice for a number of newer and single folks. Arecee is still thinking of doing it again for the next party, possibly with some changes.
Oh, it's been so long ago... sometime during the week, maybe it was on Thursday, she put me in the sleepsack for a couple hours, and then locked me in the cage all night, no blanket, no pillow. There was one other cage night more recently, but she was feeling nice and gave me the blanket and pillow.
The first weekend in May was another party (yeah, a play party every Saturday since the last update). This one was a volunteer appreciation party for Kinkfest. Played with Kay. First time I've played with her, and it was indeed quite a lot of fun. Kay is a younger women, probably early 20's. She's shorter, short curly dark hair, quite cute/attractive. She has a lot of gleeful energy. She's also a switch. At least that Saturday, not at all into domination, but certainly interested in inflicting pain. She said she loves slutty "oh yes I want it" play energy from her bottoms, not the "oh please no more" kind of helpless victim. So I was slutty (yeah, imagine that!!)
Kay has long nails, and I believe they were filed somewhat to sharper points. She used them to scratch and dig in. Of course, there was plenty of beating with toys, mostly the paddles and sometimes she used her hands. At first she had me tied up to a vertical ladder-like structure in the corner, and later moved me over to a massage table, where much more swatting, slapping and scratching commenced. Fun time. More than anything, the scene had a fun "pure sensation" kind of feel.
I believe it was during the week between this party and the Kinky Karnival that Ar gave me a pretty good spanking at home. Hmm... or maybe it was just before that party? Been a while, but it was to the techno disc, with the usual wood paddle with the holes. She went for about 40 minutes, stopping when my skin started to get rough but wasn't bleeding yet.
About a week ago, Ar and I were talking just before going to sleep (she's had me in the bed all but just 2 nights over the last 3-4 weeks), about how often to do beating. It was decided that she'd give me a beating, even if only a short and quick one... daily! Well, so far maybe one day has been missed, and so far it usually turns out to be just a quick several swats of her hands on my ass.
So, last Saturday was the Kinky Karnival event. We showed up for the last hour of the carnival part. Just socialized... didn't play any of the silly yet perverse games. Went our to dinner with some friends there, and walked back over about an hour before the play party was to start. Much setup was going on, and we helped a bit.
Just as the party was starting, Ar took me to a little stocks, locked me and in gave me a little hand spanking. Being locked in this rather uncomfortable metal stocks was surprisingly exciting. Soon she let me our and took me over to a large St. Andrew's cross and tied my arms up to the top. She gave me a lengthy flogging, using several of the floggers on me. During much of this, she had the red ball gag in my mouth. She then moved to using her single tails. I really like the 3 foot Morgan whip! The little 2 foot Patterson really bites a lot more. I was able to take it better this time, but the 3 foot one has a much better "fun factor". Somewhere around here she took off the gag, and I'm sure I was stuggling and making some moans and screams. She let me down from the cross. It seemed like the scene wasn't all that long, but in fact she told me we'd been playing for 45 minutes!
By this time, the party was really going and all those pieces of furniture which had been vacant when we started were now in use. Arecee was very pleased to see at least 4 other boys were being tortured by women. Sometimes at these parties it all, or almost all women bottoming. Ar went to socialize in the front area, and said I could wander around and play again if I found a date. I'd talked with at least 3 other potential tops earlier in the evening or at recent munches... but all were elsewhere or already playing. Turns out, a women I've only met maybe a few times was nearby while I was chatting with some other folks, and she asked if I wanted to play :-) Oh yeah, of course.
In just a few minutes, I was tied to another cross.. this one a little smaller, not quite as sturdy, and right in front of a little social area where several people were watching us play. Miz Tee has quite a sadistic streak, and she indeed did a lot of swatting with the crop and rubber paddle. Lots of striking sensitive skin, like my calves, under arms, sides of my hips, etc. She'd give me maybe 5-10 swats rapidly, getting me screaming and frantic, then rest a moment, and repeat. Over and over. Not sure how long we played, but it must have been a while. So much screaming. She seemed to really like that. The room had gotten pretty hot, and we were both sweating quite a lot. Eventually she said that was about as far as she felt like going our first time playing, but somehow I talked her into just a bit more. I probably said sometime like "it's ok... it's just pain". Ok, such a slut I can be! But eventually my throat was getting pretty dry from screaming. Yeah, she really brought it out, over and over and over. By then it was almost midnight (the party had started around 8:30).
There was another women I'd talked with, who had been playing, and really wanted to give me a caning (perhaps with a little help from Arecee). But Ar was getting tired, and the party was only scheduled to go to 1am. So we left around midnight. There's a pretty good chance I may get that caning soon, maybe at the party coming up this weekend. Yes, yet another play party. That'll be 6 Saturdays in a row! (though technically we didn't play at the party that was really busy and Ar took me home for feeldoe fucking action).
So last night (Tuesday), we hosted a small dinner gathering for birthday spankings for P... who is a woman who's fairly new to Portland and been to munches regularly over the last couple months. A number of friends couldn't make it, for various reasons. In attendance, Heatsbane, Kiara, BambooNoir and her boy, Hotpockts, Arecee & me, and P (no LJ). It was her birthday, and believe it or not, even I spanked her! Even a little bit of firm spanking. I'm not sure how tops do it, keeping the paddle striking both cheeks evenly. Arecee and Hotpockets and BambooNoir really gave her most of the "real" spaking. Kiara too. No other play that evening (and Ar had done my "daily beating" with several quick hand-only swats early in the morning).
Well, guess I can still write a lengthy entry. But still, a lower level of energy for writing here. Not sure why. Maybe it'll pass?
It's getting close to 5am. As often happens, I woke up in the middle of the night, unable to sleep. Ar's alarm should be going off soon. Usually I get back into bed to join her as she wakes up (but not before, since that disturbs her sleep), and usually I sleep a bit more as she gets ready for the day and heads out to work.