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[pear]

hehe, this song came up on my on-line radio called i hate people. this amuses me because of the mood i'm in.

i have now concluded that friendships are as complicated as relationships are, despite popular belief.

why do we have to be the only animal like this?

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[anonymous]

friendships are relationships, therefore you have to deal with them in basically the same way.

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[pear]

yeah, that idea hit me a little bit ago. for some reason i lived in a world where that didn't seem true.

people suck

[anonymous]

no one is who we know. not completely, anyway. and realtionships... they are all based around the principal of give and take... which can never be completely equal. someone always have to give more, while the other takes more. i guess if you care about someone enough you can realize and get through that... but you have to give up a part of yoursel to care that much... and we only have so much heart until it's gone.

Re: people suck

[pear]

that's a good way to put it. sad though. about the whole 'no one is who we know' part, if you know someone long enough(and i mean a looonnnggg time)its not as bad. people change, but there is always a base to who people are. with newer friends, i can't say i like knowing they aren't the best people on earth(can't say much for myself either). well, that's life.

Re: people suck

[anonymous]

yes, that is true that it's less bad if you know someone for a long time... but you always know that there are those deep secrets they keep for only themselves... which i think everybody needs... but what if knowing that secret could change the way you think or feel about that person? it's always just something i wonder about... there's a line in a common rider song that i like that goes as follows "people do weird things to each other, woah... it's longshot, that the consulation book doesn't cover, woah... it's a longshot". that's very true... and sometimes it's the people you know best, and that's what hurts the most.

Re: people suck

[pear]

in a way, understanding this secret(or whatever you want to call it) or not, they're still your friend. maybe sticking by a friend, knowing it, could mean more than walking away, but this all depends. all this could be leading into feeling used, or rejected all the time. it's just one big circle...ahh!